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Does your Significant Other call you out when you look at another girl or guy passing by?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
My Hubby looks sometimes and I actually will comment on that persons looks (so HE knows I SAW him looking). However, I know he always things I am BEAUTIFUL, and so I am not intimidated or threated by it (nor do I feel "disrespected" as I have heard others say). He is a GUY. He is VISUAL. That's fine.

SO...how do others feel about their S.O. peeking?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
It really bothers me when he/she looks at others.
- Kira - , Sundae Sparkles , Clara
3
I'm okay with it so long as it is only a passing glance. Anything more is NOT okay.
MissCandyland , Mwar , tami , Rossie
4
I could care less where their eyes go.
spookycutie , ToyTimeTim , Kitka , pirata , CaliGirl , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , mmaa , Augustxsins , rom323 , Lady of the Lab , GenderSexplorations , unfulfilled , Katelyn , Beck , ejrbrndps , TWE112 , BlooJay , amazon , Sodom and Gomorrah , amberf83 , clockwork451 , angel142stx , damnbul12 , JennSenn , mlmac
25
Other?
TheirPet , Mwar , dv8
3
Total votes: 35 (34 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: spookycutie spookycutie
I don't ever catch my boyfriend looking, but even if I did, I trust him and I'm not bothered at all by the thought. I DON'T think I look at other men at all, but he always is paranoid that I am. ugh.
08/09/2012
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
My wife could care less, as long as I am just looking.
08/09/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
It bothers me because I'm not that way. I haven't looked at another guy since I got with my husband. So it's hard for me to understand someone who isn't the same. Luckily, my husband usually only stares if he finds someone UNattractive so that he can then laugh about it to me. He's a bit childish like that. lol
08/09/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
We have similar tastes so we usually end up catching each other looking at the same person and have a good laugh about it later.
08/09/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We both look at others in passing so it doesn't bother me at all.
08/09/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
i check out chicks with him randomly, so it can't bother me since i do it with him lol
08/09/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I check out chicks and so does he it does not bother me. He also knows I cam and I have guys checking me out all the time and he loves it. He knows most of them want me in real life but can't have me. I glance at guys too but that is it and nothing more. Now for work yea I flirt and other things but it is a fantasy and nothing more.
08/09/2012
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
Quote:
Originally posted by TheirPet
We have similar tastes so we usually end up catching each other looking at the same person and have a good laugh about it later.
Same for my partner and I!
08/09/2012
Contributor: Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
Quote:
Originally posted by Augustxsins
Same for my partner and I!
Mhmm, me too.
08/09/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I understand a person is going to look, but anything longer than a glance is really unnecessary.
08/09/2012
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
Quote:
Originally posted by TheirPet
We have similar tastes so we usually end up catching each other looking at the same person and have a good laugh about it later.
Same here for my boyfriend and I. It's definitely amusing.
08/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
It's normal to look, but if it's more than a look then we'd have problems.
08/09/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I don't really care what his eyes look at, but whenever it's more than a glance I call him out on it. Because there have been times where he doesn't a 180 with his head to look at it all. Really? Come on, that's unnecessary!
08/09/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
we check out people together!
08/09/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
A glace or two is fine. I don't like leering, and he doesn't so it's cool.

Though leering is acceptable if we see something extreme. One time we saw a woman with the largest butt we ever saw (and she was a little thing). We both stared.
08/09/2012
Contributor: TWE112 TWE112
You can window shop, just don't try it on.
08/09/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I don't care.
08/09/2012
Contributor: tami tami
depends on how hard he stares, if it is a glance... no big deal....if he stares i offer to go get her number for him......if it is gawking then we have a problem, and i address him and her about it, I call him out right on the spot and embarass them both.
08/09/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't mind him doing that if it was just a quick glance as that's quite normal, but I might jokingly make a comment if he doesn't move his eyes away.
08/09/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
I think it's silly when people get upset at their significant other's eyes checking someone out. It's hardly worth the fuss. In fact, I usually join in when looking.
08/09/2012
Contributor: amberf83 amberf83
it doesnt bother me
08/09/2012
Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
I don't care, but I'm also an open relationship person.
08/09/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
I could care less where their eyes go.
08/11/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
I like to play around and it's no different than looking at a model. We both need to be able to look at someone and say "that person's hot!" and just take it as it is. A harmless comment. I like to check people out together! It can be fun!
10/12/2012