i was a lot heavier when my bf & i first started dating. i was really insecure about it, & would talk about what i didn't like about my body more than i should. finally, one day, he said to me, "babe, you need to stop pointing these things out all the time, b/c i'm starting to see it." ever since then, if i say something negative about my appearance, i play it off as a jk, or i'll just look at myself & say, "ah, i can fix that in the gym." he's always loved the way i look.