My husband and I was arguing (very heated argument) . He is not a violent man usually its me that has the temper and yes i admit that we have had a few go arounds nothing major after a few days we laugh about it.. But this time it really was a stupid argument but damnit i needed help with our 2 yr old that we are trying to potty train! He was asleep and i yelled at him to come help me out a bit bc i was loosing my patience with her after being up all night with her and him sleeping it just pissed me off more! He slept all night while i argued with her to go to bed, we are also trying to get her to sleep in a toddler bed. But anyways he got pissed that i woke him to help out a bit instead of being lazy! We go into an argument of why i woke him up and he threatened to beat the fuck out of me of course with my smart mouth i said bring it big boy he called me a bitch and that i walk around here like a queen bitch blah blah blah.. Really for once i didnt say anything i just let him scream but then he said something that just stabbed my heart (its probably nothing to yall but i have never heard something so disrespectful) he said, why dont you learn how to shut your cock sucking mouth! I honestly was in shock and couldnt believe he said something like that to me! I was hurt and i was hurt bad by those words! That man that said that to me was my best friend my husband and i gave him everything!! He was my first everything!!!! i have not said a word to him other than a few text since saturday. he has tried to apologize and tried to hug me sunday but i honestly dont want him to touch me and just im sorry and i love you is not going to fix this??! i dont want him to buy me anything i just want him to actually put effort into his apology do you know what i mean? but for the past 2 days he hasnt made an effort to even talk to me. He wont call me or text me.. Im only getting madder that he doesnt care enough to actually do anything to show me that he really is sorry! He doesnt even say goodbye when he leaves to work and always has even when we had real fights? I dont understand what the problem is i havent done anything. I got hurt and he acts like he doesnt care i cant talk to him right now bc everytime i think about it i just get madder and i know it will end badly if we start arguing!! can anyone give me some advice on what to do?? If all you are going to say is we dont need to be together or tell me that i am being stupid then dont post anything because its not stupid to me!!