I find myself getting annoyed with a lot of people posting on Fetlife about troubles (all subs talking since I'm not in any dom-specific groups). Too many chicks complain about some fault of theirs that made them lose a dom, and then ask for advice on how to avoid the fault when the dom gives them a second chance (one chick was always bratty about little things their dom ordered her to do.) My advice? If you can't stop being bratty and your dom doesn't like it, go find another dom that is ok with it; some people just aren't suited for each other!
There was also one chick that got in a nasty fight with her dom about her hanging up without asking permission. Her kid was hungry and wanted some food, and the chick hung up without even saying why; then, when the dom got mad at her, she went on a tirade about how her kid is more important than a stupid rule. If the kid was crying for some unknown reason, I'd understand, but just breaking the rule because the kid is hungry? If you want to do that, don't tell your dom he's unreasonable for getting mad. I'd at least try asking permission, I think I can trust my guy to let me hang up for such a reason and call back later (and kids shouldn't be hungry enough to die of starvation in the 5 seconds it takes to ask for permission.)
I think that was my worst unsympathetic story. There was one girl who, in my opinion, overreacted at her guy for not texting when he went to go see his kid (his phone was dying and he didn't charge it before leaving, then fell asleep at the kids' house), but I have sympathy for the worry she felt. I just think a big fight over such a thing isn't really necessary.
