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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
A young lady in my office just got married. Her new husband asked her point blank, "now that we are married, would you forget about the blouse and bra and please go topless around the house, I really just love to be able to see your boobs all the time...and you can adjust the thermostat to whatever you need to stay comfortable".

She was really taken aback by the question. They are both pretty mild mannered from what I get. She is not sure if she should be flattered or kind of imposed upon.

What say the folks at EF about that strange one???

I honestly was not 100% sure how to answer.

(they have an apartment with good shades!!!)
10/23/2011
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Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
lol. I always walk around my house topless and pretty much bottomless as well. Although I normally do wear panties. It should definitely be something she wants to do. It might be awkward for some.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I do it. And definitely adjust the thermostat to keep me from beaming for all eternity. It's really nice and very freeing. I say she should give it shot and if she doesn't like it, then she doesn't like it. No harm, no foul.
10/23/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I generally roam my house sans clothing, but of my own accord, not at hubby's request.

As long as it was a request and not a demand, I don't see this as being a problem.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Mister CreamySweet Mister CreamySweet
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Originally posted by Bignuf
A young lady in my office just got married. Her new husband asked her point blank, "now that we are married, would you forget about the blouse and bra and please go topless around the house, I really just love to be able to see your boobs all ... more
Not sure bout the way he presented it... probably could have handled that a little better. My wife (Creamysweet) runs around the entire house and often the back yard totally naked most of the time provided the little folks are all off to the state run babysitting center (school) for the day. Mee to some of the time
10/23/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I agree that she should try it if she feels comfortable, but that the way he approached it was a bit offputing
10/23/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I would go around naked personally since Master prefers me to not wear clothes. I also find clothes ridiculous and so it would of my own free-will, too.

However the way he approached it was kind of off-putting in my opinion. Blech.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I try take most of that stuff as a compliment. :p
10/23/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Hmm, I would much rather go with my top on, and that's something my husband knows, so if he were to give me that speech I'd probably be a little offended that he's disregarding my wishes.
10/23/2011
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
if someone's not comfortable walking around naked it can't really be forced. While it's nice that he didn't seem mean or angry, he seemed more forceful than he should have been, but that's just my thought (from someone who's usually naked at home)
10/23/2011
Contributor: null null
I'm topless most of the time, possibly to the chagrin of my SO, he prefers tank tops with matching undies.
If I was asked like this I'd not only be thrilled, I'd take it as a compliment.
10/23/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
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Originally posted by Ryuson
I agree that she should try it if she feels comfortable, but that the way he approached it was a bit offputing
Ditto. If she feels comfortable with it, why not. It's just the way he put it... Ugh.
10/23/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Hmmm. My husband makes comments like this all the time, but he doesn't mean it. (I mean, unless we're in the bedroom. Last night, I tried on a new lingerie (it didn't fit ) and he said that I was as sexy wearing a raggy old nightgown or preferably naked than anything traditionally "sexy." It was cute, but I'll still continue to wear sexy stuff for both of us.)

Most of the back of our house is glass, lots of windows, garden windows, etc. We have some small children in the neighborhood, people, including UPS and the mail man come to the door regularly, one of my neighbors is a creep, I have KIDS of my own, and they are around a lot. I prefer to wear a top, unless we're having sex.... there are a lot of reasons I wouldn't walk around topless, even around my own house. And I'm about the farthest thing from a prude. I just don't think it's practical. I mean, unless no one ever comes to your door or can see in your windows or glass doors.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
i am always topless and bottom less it doesn´t matter to me it´s very comfortable
10/23/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I go topless around the house a lot and LOVE it. Very few windows....no young kids, etc etc.

I do it a lot more in the summer than the winter though and if someone comes to the door I do hide or throw on a top.
10/23/2011
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
I think it's a perfectly fine request if she agrees with it. But I think it could have been asked more... subtly. Not something you want to be asked point blank, I would imagine.
10/23/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
A young lady in my office just got married. Her new husband asked her point blank, "now that we are married, would you forget about the blouse and bra and please go topless around the house, I really just love to be able to see your boobs all ... more
First, uh how do you know of this request by her new husband? If she spoke of it at the office, I wouldn't have considered her to be quite as reserved as you alluded.
Second as long as they have privacy as in no neighbors looking into their home, no elevated train passing by big windows without blinds, it's a perfectly reasonable request, in my opinion.
10/23/2011
Contributor: kadytheredpanda kadytheredpanda
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
A young lady in my office just got married. Her new husband asked her point blank, "now that we are married, would you forget about the blouse and bra and please go topless around the house, I really just love to be able to see your boobs all ... more
If it's just a request, fine with me.

I personally only go topless if 1) I'm alone and 2) It's way too hot for me to even wear clothes. But those are my only conditions.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I, for one, can't stand wearing pants around they house. They usually come off about the time the front door closes completely, assuming there's no company.

I wouldnt have an issue being naked around the person i married. I mean, if you marry them, they're gonna see you, and at least in this lady's case the hubby clearly likes it. The only downside is if she's insecure or has some mental hangup about what's decent for her, then, well, that just sucks for both of them now doesn't it.
10/23/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Wow that's pretty funny. I pretty much go topless anyway around my house. I'm sure my poor neighbors have seen more of me than they've wanted to.
10/23/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I go fully nude around the house all the time, so I wouldn't be taken aback. However, my husband knew that before we got married.
10/24/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Good luck to anyone trying to keep clothes on me in my own home. LOL Yes, it's comfortable, but titillating my man is a pleasant side effect.

I wouldn't have a problem with a request like that, but I wouldn't want to hear it worded as a demand - that would irk me.
10/24/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
I would've slapped him. Whether or not I wanted to or not, it's my decision.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Valkyrie Valkyrie
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
A young lady in my office just got married. Her new husband asked her point blank, "now that we are married, would you forget about the blouse and bra and please go topless around the house, I really just love to be able to see your boobs all ... more
ilove walking around the house nude
10/24/2011
Contributor: smartbabi92 smartbabi92
I can't really walk around in the nude at my house because i live with three other people but if i could i would be doing it all the time
10/24/2011
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
I demand nekkedness around the house if there's no one visiting and the room-mate is safely elsewhere. Yes, my mate is a pleasure to look at, but in all honesty I think the real reason I am this way is so I don't feel over-dressed myself. I HATE pants (skirts are worse) and will shed those things instantly given half a chance, and once you lose the pants, why bother with the rest of the clothing world?
03/21/2012
Contributor: Various Various
I'm all for it and most of the time I am topless, but I respect that some people just aren't comfortable enough to do the same.
03/21/2012
Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
A young lady in my office just got married. Her new husband asked her point blank, "now that we are married, would you forget about the blouse and bra and please go topless around the house, I really just love to be able to see your boobs all ... more
I walk around nakie as much as possible. But I think that's something he should have brought up before marrying her.
06/30/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
If I'm alone I might go topless, and I like staying naked for a while after a nice long shower. But mostly that's in the summer. It's very hot here. I'll also take my top off in my bedroom if I'm hot or it's uncomfortable or something, but I keep my blinds and door closed. But he asked in a rather unappealing way. I would not have liked that. He could have broached the subject better.
06/30/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
Not an appropriate place to ask that question!
06/30/2012