What would you do if you didn't have a wrapper? proceed or put it off?
Uhhhoh... I don't have a condom...
08/30/2012
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I would go find one.
08/30/2012
I'd be really irresponsible if I didn't use one.
08/30/2012
Look for one, or go out and purchase some. Otherwise, I'd put things off for another time.
08/30/2012
kick him out of bed
08/31/2012
Usually we have them but we never finish with them on, so needless to say if me and my partner don't have one we still do the deed
08/31/2012
It depends on whether the partners are already fluid bonded and whether other birth control is being used or what the risks of pregnancy are and the tolerance of the couple for a surprise pregnancy.
08/31/2012
Well I have a girlfriend who I know has nothing funny going on down there and is on birth control. So we could just proceed to have sex. With a new person. I would say sorry next time
08/31/2012
I am fluid bonded with my partners. A new partner that I didn't trust then no go.
08/31/2012
I would either make them run to the store, or find other fun things to do instead.
08/31/2012
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Wait.
Originally posted by
Lover Boy
What would you do if you didn't have a wrapper? proceed or put it off?
08/31/2012
We're not using any other form of birth control right now, so put it off until we find one!
As for other situations, my personal belief is that if you had a reason for the condom in the first place, you should wait.
As for other situations, my personal belief is that if you had a reason for the condom in the first place, you should wait.
08/31/2012
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I would put it off until I have one or continue on if I am with a fluid bonded partner. I never continue unless I am sure of my partner's STD condition!
Originally posted by
Lover Boy
What would you do if you didn't have a wrapper? proceed or put it off?
08/31/2012
put it off
08/31/2012
If I have a long term partner, whom I trust and is on the Pill, then I'd forego the condom. For partners I don't know too well, and don't trust, I'd wait, and stick to oral.
08/31/2012
Considering that I'm not on birth control anymore, and I want kids but not now, I'd either hunt a condom down or put it off.
If he really wanted to have sex still he'd have to content himself with a toy, or my mouth or breasts.
If he really wanted to have sex still he'd have to content himself with a toy, or my mouth or breasts.
08/31/2012
Well if I had a reason for needing a condom in the first place I wouldn't proceed without having. I don't need one in my current situation, but with a new partner I would never take the risk.
08/31/2012
If you're living a lifestyle where condoms are a pre-req for gettin' down n dirty, then they should be considered as "gas" or "cigarettes" or "beer". When you start to get low, you stock up on more.
Grab an extra box when you're at the store and stash them somewhere.
Grab an extra box when you're at the store and stash them somewhere.
08/31/2012
I've been married for 9 years and we've been together for 13 so condoms are not a necessity for us because we're fluid bonded and neither one of us has STD's.
However, if it was a new partner, WAIT!
However, if it was a new partner, WAIT!
08/31/2012
It would depend on how well I knew that person. If I knew that they were STD and STI free, I would continue, but if I didn't know, I wouldn't continue.
In my current situation, we have never ever used condoms. I see no reason to start now.
In my current situation, we have never ever used condoms. I see no reason to start now.
08/31/2012
Do the right thing, ask your partner is he/she wants to use one. If they say yes, go to the store. If they say "it's ok", then take responsibility for whatever could come from it.
08/31/2012
We would just do other stuff
08/31/2012
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Hormones make people say okay when they normally wouldn't. I don't think I would trust an okay in that situation. "Wanna risk it?", is an instant turn-off or should be anyway.
Originally posted by
PassionQT
Do the right thing, ask your partner is he/she wants to use one. If they say yes, go to the store. If they say "it's ok", then take responsibility for whatever could come from it.
08/31/2012
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It should be, yes, but for a lot of people sex in risky places - or situations - is quite a turn on. Unfortunately, this type of risk gets lumped in with the 'we might get caught!' aspect.
Originally posted by
Ansley
Hormones make people say okay when they normally wouldn't. I don't think I would trust an okay in that situation. "Wanna risk it?", is an instant turn-off or should be anyway.
09/01/2012
We are fluid bonded and he is fixed, so it doesn't matter now, but if (heaven forbid) I was to have a new partner, no glove, no love.
09/01/2012
If it was with my current partner, we would probably just do oral.
If it was a new partner, I would just wait until another time.
If it was a new partner, I would just wait until another time.
09/01/2012
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