To me a person is a person, but I always liked to hang out with males muchmuch more than females ever since kindergarten! :D (I can't remember anything earlier... ^^) Females are wonderful when it comes to comforting you, but for some reason I always felt that I enjoyed talking with males and they seem to approach topics on a level what is more "usable" in the practical sense, or even just some philosophical chatting away... And they wanna hang out with you like a buddy, not just pull yer legs to do stuff together all the time, pop up at yer home, go to places just to hang out - females seem to need more attention, and I am more private, like having things my way, and it always seemed to match with male company muchmuch better... :D (No offense of course, depending on the personality of the female I can enjoy their company very much too... :D
What gender do you prefer to hang out with? :)
Discussion Topics
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How does it go in your case? :)
(95 posts)
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
05/16/2012
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Guys mostly
05/16/2012
I've always gotten along best with boys, I just seem to clash with women too much! I mean I certainly have a lot of great female friends, but women are much less... Emotionally reliable? I like reliability!
05/17/2012
I'm a female and prefer to hang out with guys. Most girls (in my town) were catty and dramatic.
05/17/2012
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It depends on my mood. THere are times when hangin' with the girls is very interesting lol. Some of their witty remarks or funny stories are nice to listen to. Its more chilled with them. (most of the time). I don't really have any catty friends that are drama filled, so it wouldn't be a problem in that aspect.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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The guys-I love hanging out with them. Poker nights, shootin' pool, shootin' the shit about just anything in general. Then of course there are those talks about "the mrs." and how things are going, venting etc. Theres just some things you can't talk to the opposite sex about sometimes.!
05/17/2012
Opposite gender
05/17/2012
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I LOVE Poker! I'm a female and normally there are very few females at the tables when our friends host a game. I don't attend them very often, though. I don't mind hubby going to the games without me. It gives him some extra "me time" to hang with the guys. Sometimes the buy in's are much too high for either of us to play.
Originally posted by
jmex83
It depends on my mood. THere are times when hangin' with the girls is very interesting lol. Some of their witty remarks or funny stories are nice to listen to. Its more chilled with them. (most of the time). I don't really have any catty
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It depends on my mood. THere are times when hangin' with the girls is very interesting lol. Some of their witty remarks or funny stories are nice to listen to. Its more chilled with them. (most of the time). I don't really have any catty friends that are drama filled, so it wouldn't be a problem in that aspect.
The guys-I love hanging out with them. Poker nights, shootin' pool, shootin' the shit about just anything in general. Then of course there are those talks about "the mrs." and how things are going, venting etc. Theres just some things you can't talk to the opposite sex about sometimes.! less
The guys-I love hanging out with them. Poker nights, shootin' pool, shootin' the shit about just anything in general. Then of course there are those talks about "the mrs." and how things are going, venting etc. Theres just some things you can't talk to the opposite sex about sometimes.! less
05/17/2012
for the most part it's been the opposite gender. I wish I had more female friends but I find it's a lot harder for me to make friends with females.
05/17/2012
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That's one of my problems. I'd love to have a female friend that I trusted fully.
Originally posted by
Breas
for the most part it's been the opposite gender. I wish I had more female friends but I find it's a lot harder for me to make friends with females.
05/17/2012
I looooove hanging out and spending time with my partner, and he's a man (opposite sex). However if I'm going out with friends, it's always my group of girlfriends (same sex), and we have the BEST time!
05/17/2012
Definitely opposite sex, there's just not a lot between me and the same sex in common just in general I'd say.
05/17/2012
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i guess same gender
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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05/17/2012
same gender for me...I have a lot of female friend although I can see that it can get a bit catty at times
05/17/2012
Opposite sex, but my wife doesn't seem to like it, so I tend to sstick with the same gender
05/17/2012
Doesn't matter to me, I have guy friends and girl friends.
05/17/2012
I don't really care. What I DO care about is if I can tolerate their personality... x_x; I don't 'click' with a lot of people enough to hang with them very much.
05/17/2012
I get along with males better than I do females.
05/17/2012
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Usually opposite gender. I don't think it's a competition issue or anything, I just tend to get bored with what people of my same gender have to say. I have just a handful of interesting friends of the same gender.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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05/17/2012
Females for me. I remember my 10 year HS reunion and I hung out with the girls the whole night.
05/17/2012
I hang out with whoever will have me.
05/17/2012
Opposite
05/17/2012
Guys, and guy-ish girls. I don't have a great deal in common with prissy women.
I much prefer, "Hey, let's go find a cool beer to try, then practice photography, video games, and hitting each other. Or we could just go dig a hole and see what we find. Or hey, let's go skeet shooting! Ooh, then we can watch The Godfather!" My besty is my perfect match.
I much prefer, "Hey, let's go find a cool beer to try, then practice photography, video games, and hitting each other. Or we could just go dig a hole and see what we find. Or hey, let's go skeet shooting! Ooh, then we can watch The Godfather!" My besty is my perfect match.
05/17/2012
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It depends on the person. I love my gay buddies, B and R, and they call me their fag hag affectionately. I still like to have females to talk about pms with and such though!
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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05/17/2012
Either one. I get along great with women and with guys. Guys do have more interesting topics of conversation, but the gals are sooo much fun!!!
05/17/2012
I love being around cool people. People who are pretty chill and don't invite drama into our friendship. I don't care if you're a male or female, just be as drama-free as possible.
Most of my friends are female, as I am involved in a roller derby league, but I get along with both, equally.
Most of my friends are female, as I am involved in a roller derby league, but I get along with both, equally.
05/17/2012
When I was younger, girls were so mean to me, so I naturally drew towards the opposite gender. Now as I've gotten older, I prefer to do like-activities with women, but find myself easily irritated when our values are not in sync.
05/17/2012
My best friend is a guy. So much easier to deal with the opposite sex.
05/17/2012
I don't really have a preference. I can get along with them both equally, but it really depends on who the person is. I try my best to get along with everyone, but find it difficult to get along with women.
05/17/2012
i don't really have a preference. they both have their pros and cons.
05/17/2012
I've always had more girl friends than guy friends.
05/17/2012
I will say it doesn't matter the gender, it's the mind set that matters. I'm 26 and not married, but in a long term committed relationship. I don't want kids, call me mean or evil, I just don't like kids. I have no desire to start a family, and I'm not in a huge rush to get married even if I'd like to. Other women my age aren't always in this place, they are often concerned with kids, wanting kids, getting married if they are not, getting a guy if they don't have one, and stuff like this. I'm okay with where I am and I'm not following the normal path.
This can make it difficult to find someone I can really be good friends with, I don't wish to see pictures of people kids and endlessly hear about them, so I don't have any friends with children it seems. Or if I do they are older women who are past that point in their life and the kids are adults or almost adults.
With men my age, since I'm in a relationship, I'm less likely to click since there's less of a chance. While I can talk with them about sports, I don't work with many men, so it's a mot point it seems. I'd say I'd prefer female friends to male, but in the past I've had more male friends since they came with slightly less drama.
This can make it difficult to find someone I can really be good friends with, I don't wish to see pictures of people kids and endlessly hear about them, so I don't have any friends with children it seems. Or if I do they are older women who are past that point in their life and the kids are adults or almost adults.
With men my age, since I'm in a relationship, I'm less likely to click since there's less of a chance. While I can talk with them about sports, I don't work with many men, so it's a mot point it seems. I'd say I'd prefer female friends to male, but in the past I've had more male friends since they came with slightly less drama.
05/17/2012
When in a relationship with a dude, I prefer to have girl friends. It creates an atmosphere in my life where I am highly unlikely to cheat.
05/17/2012
I have a really hard time hanging out with females. I honestly just don't know how to relate to them most of the time. I try, but I just have a lot more in common with males in general.
05/17/2012
Guys. I really dont get along with many females, our interests are just too different. I like nerdy stuff like star wars and video games. I cant talk about girl stuff, I find it awkward. And girls are way too catty. I cant stab someone in the back like almost every girl I met can or talk behind peoples backs. Its just not in my nature.
05/17/2012
Girls mostly, but i can easily get along with men
05/17/2012
Not sure why, but I feel I connect more with women than guys so I prefer hanging out with them.
05/17/2012
It depends on the person, so it doesn't matter to me.
05/17/2012
Guys. I just get along better with the opposite sex.
05/18/2012
I have a lot of friends (who I don't really see often) and they are both guys and girls. I would say I hang out with more girls because hanging out with guys can complicate things with my relationship, except with a few guys. And we (the guy, me, and my guy) all hang out together when I do see them.
05/18/2012
I prefer hanging out with guys; can't stand making friends with women who are dramatic, likes to gossip, and criticize people all the time.
05/18/2012
either sex works for me. After all I am not attracted to any of them, just my wife.
05/19/2012
It doesn't really matter much as long as they're friends. Over time, I've had more male friends than female though.
05/19/2012
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Guys are much easier.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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05/19/2012
I've always had a mix of female and male buddies. Guys seem to be more comfortable with me for some reason though. (I'm also exposed to more males through my line of work and leisure activities)
05/19/2012
I'm bisexual but I love women...talking to them, hanging out with them, having sex with them...Yah, if I could only be with one gender for the rest of my life, it would be women. I'd miss the musky smell, thick muscles, deep voices, and stubbly faces of men, but I don't think I would be happy without women.
05/20/2012
Either gender is fine.
05/20/2012
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Well we can be friends
Originally posted by
SimpleTeaser
That's one of my problems. I'd love to have a female friend that I trusted fully.
05/20/2012
ANY gender is fine.
05/20/2012
I get along with guys better than females. One reason is because the females around here (where I live) are scandalous and two-faced. Every female friend I have ever had, has stabbed me in the back (or heart). I would love to have a real friend but just doesnt work out for me that way. Another reason is because I am blunt, I dont pussy foot around things. Most females want to hear what they want to hear, even if it isnt the truth. I dont play those games. Guys are just like whatever. I am the girly girl that is one of the guys.
05/31/2012
I really have no real preference though my circle of friends is primarily female
05/31/2012
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It depends, if its my fiancés (Mom, grandmother, or sister) I prefer to hang out with women. But if it's no one that is related to me in anyway, I prefer to hang out with men because women don't like me for some reason(Unless they are older) and by older I just mean older then me somewhere around 40.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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06/01/2012
I dont care, I have a pretty even ratio of male to female friends.
06/01/2012
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Gender doesn't really matter to me.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
...
more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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06/01/2012
Gender doesn't really matter but I usually wind up hanging out with boys. I always joke with my bf that I can never have a "girls night out" because I'd be with all boys!
06/01/2012
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I prefer to talk to men. Except for my Nana.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
...
more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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06/01/2012
Same gender, but I like a good mix of both. I can't handle either gender in one large bulk.
06/01/2012
It's never really mattered to me. I've had both male and female best friends.
06/01/2012
I preferred to be around girls when I was single, but now that I've met my love I prefer to hang out with the boys.
06/01/2012
I prefer hanging out with men. Maybe it's just my area, but the women around here just talk shit on eachother all day every day. I'd rather just hang out with people who like to have fun.
06/02/2012
I like hanging out with women more, I've always gotten along better with my own gender. ^_^
Then again I've been rather lucky to have meet some truly wonderful ladies about my own age so I've never had to deal with the typical "fair-weather friend" or the kind of women that talk about you behind your back and are nice to your face.
Then again I've been rather lucky to have meet some truly wonderful ladies about my own age so I've never had to deal with the typical "fair-weather friend" or the kind of women that talk about you behind your back and are nice to your face.
06/02/2012
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Men.
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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06/04/2012
I like hanging out with guys mostly but only when they are cool and not trying to flirt with me its abit annoying at time.
07/12/2012
I've always hung out with the opposite sex, just the other day i realize i probably hang out with guys way to much..... i was at a friends birthday party n i was talking to a big group of girls i don't know what made me turn around but i did n the guys were all stand there but they were being quieter then normal i immediately knew they were talking about this girl that had shown up i went over and asked them some off hand question about her boobs and they all looked at me with this wtf look and asks how the hell i knew that.... haha
07/12/2012
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Doesn't matter to me
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
...
more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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07/12/2012
Guys are less drama
07/12/2012
FYI I'm a chick and I totally only like hanging out with guys. It's so much more relaxed and girls are just like, bitchy comparison.
07/13/2012
Opposite gender.
07/13/2012
females i don't like guys
07/13/2012
I'm usually more comfortable around guys but both are fun
07/26/2012
I identify as genderqueer so this question is a bit trickier for me. I hang out with a lot of women but I think that's because of the locations I frequent. I hang out in a lot of feminist spaces.
07/26/2012
I prefer to hangout with non assholes... girls can be asses just as much as guys
07/26/2012
Same gender. It would drive my wife crazy if I hung out with women, with what I did to her..
07/26/2012
I feel more comfortable around the opposite gender. Always have.
07/27/2012
same gender
07/27/2012
Males mostly...I just feel other women that have been my friends in the past always create more drama and and talk behind your back and men just want to chill out and crack jokes and just hang out.
07/27/2012
It depends on the person. Women who are drama queens, I can't stand to be around them. Men who think they are God's gift to women, same thing. . .
07/27/2012
I could care less, to be fully honest.
I prefer being around people who I can be myself with and who I do not feel like I am restraining myself with. In other words, people in the lifestyle.
I prefer being around people who I can be myself with and who I do not feel like I am restraining myself with. In other words, people in the lifestyle.
07/27/2012
Doesn't matter to me.
07/27/2012
It doesnt make much difference to me. A good friend is a good friend.
07/27/2012
it doesnt matter to me. If I'm with my husband I'm usually around a bunch of guys but I'll hang out with my girls of course too
08/01/2012
I tend to hang out with males (same gender), but it's more a matter of more of them are nerds where I am
08/01/2012
My closest friends are female (same as me), but I hang out with a lot of guys too. Guys are easier to hang out with, girls can be so competative and talk behind your back way more than guys do.
08/01/2012
I definitely prefer hanging out with guys more.
08/02/2012
Really depends I like hanging with the guys cause it tends to be less drama but I have some female friends I am super close to
08/02/2012
I have had a lot of fun hanging out with people of a variety of genders, but I admit it's particularly fun to be around other non-binary trans* folk. My overall preference is to have people of many different genders to hang out with, I wouldn't want to shut potential cool people out of my social group.
08/02/2012
I tend to hang out more with guys than girls. Its not really a preference, just that I seem to get along with them better.
08/02/2012
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mainly guys...they dont gossip about you as much as females and they wont have sex with your bf behind your back!lol!. Ive always hungout more with guys...I just tend to get along better with them
Originally posted by
DreamWolf
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I
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more
Ok, I know, for me as long as I have my Master (before Him: as long as I had my loves) I need nobody else in the whooooooooooooooole widewide world - and even for friends I prefer to talk with males, gods know why... (And He doesn't mind it as I pick only reliable close friends, having only one really now, my "virtual Dad"... ^^)
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08/02/2012
Men...lol... I just don't "get" most women and never have. I dunno.
08/02/2012
Most of my friends/best friends are male.
02/07/2013
Usually the opposite gender.
02/07/2013
Never had a preference
02/10/2013
I'll talk and try to make friends with anyone, but almost all of my lasting friends are male, or female "tomboys." It just seems to be the way things work out.
02/10/2013
I rarely hang out with anyone but my husband. I prefer being friends with men. It's not really a secret that women hate each other. I work with mostly women, and most of us are good peoeple. One. Of us is always the odd one out, and that person changes every couple of weeks. I'm not saying that its right. It just works out that way.
it's like that.
it's like that.
02/10/2013
In my experience - guys.
They are more laid back, they are less easily offended (most of them that I've med)
They will talk about something other than the guy their dating, hair and clothes. But some do that too... except not as much as the girls/women I've been around.
My mom has coworkers at the house sometimes - and they'll bring their daughters and it's like a friggin hen fest in the kitchen. They have huge makeup boxes, nail polish talk about who married who, who's have a baby, who is cheating BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH - every time... or work place gossip and bitching about other coworkers.
Same happens when an old highschool friend and her roommate/friend are together... hair, boys, hair, their boyfriends, and recently what people we used to run with are up to.
They are more laid back, they are less easily offended (most of them that I've med)
They will talk about something other than the guy their dating, hair and clothes. But some do that too... except not as much as the girls/women I've been around.
My mom has coworkers at the house sometimes - and they'll bring their daughters and it's like a friggin hen fest in the kitchen. They have huge makeup boxes, nail polish talk about who married who, who's have a baby, who is cheating BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH - every time... or work place gossip and bitching about other coworkers.
Same happens when an old highschool friend and her roommate/friend are together... hair, boys, hair, their boyfriends, and recently what people we used to run with are up to.
02/10/2013
Doesn't matter to me at all. :]
02/10/2013
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