The New Intimacy

What is the most important factor in sexual attraction for you?

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Contributor: Hekate101 Hekate101
I will find myself more attracted to a man if he's a stimulating conversationalist who can make me laugh, even if he's not my "type" - but a friend of mine is absolutely strict on looks, and will date a guy even if he's not as smart as her. What are the most important features for you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Body type
5
Specific bodily feature (e.g. large breasts, nice ass)
3
Specific personality feature (e.g. flattering, forceful, supplicant)
6
Physical chemistry (e.g. kissing)
13
Humor
14
Compliments
Shared interests
14
Shared life goals
3
Ability to hold a conversation
10
Other - please explain
4
Total votes: 72 (19 voters)
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Contributor: underHim underHim
Strictly sexually it is if someone takes good care of themselves.
04/23/2012
Contributor: catsin catsin
A little bit of everything for me, really. A well-rounded individual, let's say.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Chemistry and that we can have fun together... thats about all I need.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
some of everything
04/23/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
i basically like all of the traits above......try to find a girl with as much of what i like as possible, it was hard but i found one
04/23/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I have to admit, humor I like. However, I'm a very weird person, so I can get picky. They can complement all they want, but I like a humor that jives with mine.
04/23/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I like the dorky nerd type. I like them a little chubby (better for cuddling!) We have to have a lot in common, too.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
they gotta have a brain.
04/23/2012
Contributor: angiem32 angiem32
For me, looks are important to a certain extent because if I don't find them attractive, then I don't think if could work to start with. Although I love people with a great personality and they need to be able to hold a conversation
04/23/2012
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
Shared interest. You can be the sexiest man alive, but if we have nothing to talk about I have little reason to stay with you aside from the obvious and I don't find that to be the most important part of a relationship.
04/23/2012