I understand it to a point because you have to be happy with yourself before you could be happy in a long term relationship. But honestly the things she wants to do could be done married kids are the bigger issue. If you love someone they should be will to do anything with you or for you. But i saw that one with my bf the fist time I saw him and he asked me if I had a list it made me laugh. we just joked about it, but it is a annoying commercial.