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Which would you rather (Death vs Separation?)

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Contributor: BabyL0ve BabyL0ve
I just lost my dog today, but it made me wonder which I would rather have in a real relationship between 2 lovers.

Which would you rather have in a relationship?

I'm sorry for the sick questions
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Have your partner leave you, or
26  (87%)
Have your partner die during the relationship
4  (13%)
Total votes: 30
Poll is closed
09/14/2011
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Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm very sorry for your loss. I know too well how that feels and even 5.5yrs later I have moments where thinking about my baby makes my eyes tear up.

If I get involved with someone it's cause I have strong feelings for them and even if the relationship ends (even their doing) I still can't wish them harm of any kind cause they are someone I love/loved.
I'd much rather a partner leaves me to go onto other things in their life than to lose anyone via death. I don't know how I'd deal with a loving partner dying - it's extremely hard losing a baby (pet).
09/14/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Since I married my partner, I intend to be with him until death do us part. I am sorry for your loss!
09/14/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Dear, I would prefer neither, but I wouldn't want him to die, so I chose separation.
09/14/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by hjtee
Dear, I would prefer neither, but I wouldn't want him to die, so I chose separation.
Same here.
09/14/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
The separation
09/14/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I'm really sorry for your loss! We just lost our dog of several years a few months ago.
09/14/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I just lost my dog today, but it made me wonder which I would rather have in a real relationship between 2 lovers.

Which would you rather have in a relationship?

I'm sorry for the sick questions
I lost first my fiance. It was really hard for me to get over. It's been over 25 years and I still think about her every single day.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I might prefer separation, if it occurred at a time in my life when I had time and drive to find someone else.
09/15/2011
Contributor: WierdAl WierdAl
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I just lost my dog today, but it made me wonder which I would rather have in a real relationship between 2 lovers.

Which would you rather have in a relationship?

I'm sorry for the sick questions
Sorry for the loss of your dog.
09/15/2011
Contributor: ColorSplash ColorSplash
Its sad when someone dies and some people never end up moving. I rather them leave and be alive than dead in a grave.
09/17/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I'd prefer separation. At least they'll be alive, and able to have further happiness, as will I.
09/21/2011
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I am separated right now. Although it feels close to death some days, I would much prefer this over death. There is a reason for everything. You can't erase yesterday and tomorrow is not here yet. Trying to keep my chin up and wish for happier days. BTW, sorry for you loss.
09/28/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
Separation can be temporary. Death is forever.

BabyL0ve, I'm really sorry for your loss.
11/24/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I just lost my dog today, but it made me wonder which I would rather have in a real relationship between 2 lovers.

Which would you rather have in a relationship?

I'm sorry for the sick questions
Oh my, I thought I could answer it but it's hard. I guess I rather have him alive but not with me than forever gone.
11/02/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I guess separation
11/02/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by BabyL0ve
I just lost my dog today, but it made me wonder which I would rather have in a real relationship between 2 lovers.

Which would you rather have in a relationship?

I'm sorry for the sick questions
Leave for sure!
11/02/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Yeah... It would hurt, most painfully, but then, you know that they are going to be okay, and so are you. I'd rather my partner be happy with someone else than be dead, but, well, I don't want to think about it.
11/02/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Horrible question!
11/02/2012