Who cums first?

Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
We generally try to time it together, that's always best even when it doesn't happen exactly on together. Either that or he makes sure I do first and then we can go from there
01/20/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
I do.
01/20/2013
Contributor: noway noway
Me, me, me, then him, then me again maybe...
01/20/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
My male partner always, but it depends for my female excursions!
01/20/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
Always me first.
01/21/2013
Contributor: anonymous1298304 anonymous1298304
doesn't matter to me who does first.
01/21/2013
Contributor: skittlezjoyann skittlezjoyann
I do, on top of that about 95% of the time I have multiple before he gets close.
01/21/2013
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Quote:
Originally posted by deltalima
Haha loved the article and the title.
Thank you. I am glad that you liked it! Thanks for showing me some love!
01/21/2013
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
He ALWAYS makes sure I cum at least once, if not twice, before he cums!! He isn't satisfied if he cums before me.
That's the way it is in our bedroom. Sometimes she's a lil' selfish. You know, tries to make a trio out of it. But thats cool with me. I actually get more enjoyment out of watching her cum.
01/21/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I almost always come first. I went through a period, due a hormone imbalance, where it was taking me a really long time to have an orgasm. My Man spent a lot of time (and money on toys, hormones, Dr visits etc) to help me get back on tract. He also worked very hard to help my issue. I remember one night, he went down on me for 3 hours. We were both exhausted and in tears, and I still couldn't get there, but he was so sad he didn't want to quit.

Luckily, HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) has been a Godsend, despite the cost ($200.00 co-pay every 3 months) plus using toys, oral sex, other kinds of play and I'm doing a lot better.

I'd do the same for him and often do. After I had an easy orgasm the other night, he was having a hard time, we played for an hour, then I gave him an hour and a half BJ until he finally got there. We're both willing to do whatever it takes for both of us to have a good time.

Usually it doesn't take us this long, but on occasion it does. He does make sure I come first most of the time.

If we'd had sex and I had a lot of orgasms the night before, My Man prefers a quickie in the morning. I usually don't need to or even try to come during these quickies, but they are fun. If I get really turned on and tell him I need to get there, he'll do what it takes, as long as neither of us doesn't need to be at work early or it's close to when the kids get up.
01/21/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
He cums first 99 times out of 100. It's hard for me, because I get WAY more turned on when he cums first, but half the time he's disinterested in finishing me off after, so I have to do it myself. :/
01/21/2013
Contributor: meow111 meow111
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Originally posted by Bleu
My boyfriend seems to not have learned the rules of sex. He's never given me an orgasm.
ohh you poor thing
01/21/2013
Contributor: meow111 meow111
Hubby has mastered the art of fore play so me
01/21/2013
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
mostly i do then my hubby.
01/21/2013
Contributor: Nickki Hard Nickki Hard
I always get off first many times!
01/21/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
My partner does
01/21/2013
Contributor: phroggielicker phroggielicker
my bf always makes sure I cum first and usually multiple times
01/22/2013
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
always me n then him
01/22/2013
Contributor: Chelynn67 Chelynn67
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
In my recent article for Sexis, I discuss that a man should always let his lady cum first...you cam read the article here...link
Yet another shameless plug! Tee hee...
Anyways, I am curious to see who cums first in your relationship. You or ... more
In the past, it has usually been him and I rarely get the opportunity but not lately. don't know if it's because I have opened up a bit or better partner? think it might actually be a little bit of both but I'm pretty satisfied.
01/22/2013