Unfortunately it would be uncomfortable...my moms never been close to me T_T
Would you let your mom help organize your sex toys?
07/03/2012
No. That would be a terrible idea.
07/03/2012
No way.
07/03/2012
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nope
Originally posted by
- Kira -
I finally decided to tell my mom about me reviewing. We're selling our house and she's been coming over to help us get it ready for showing. We had been moving our mass storage in and out of the garage every weekend which got to be a pain.
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I finally decided to tell my mom about me reviewing. We're selling our house and she's been coming over to help us get it ready for showing. We had been moving our mass storage in and out of the garage every weekend which got to be a pain. I figured one day she'd pop over and see it, so it was best to tell her before that happened.
What was her response? One - could she borrow some toys (gross) and two that the setup I have for storage is too cluttered for showing the house. Now she wants to get new bins and help me reorganize all my toys. She's getting me under the bed bins for my "favorites" and closet bins for the rest. I think she intends to go through them one by one with me and go "is this an under the bed or bin one?" I'm disturbed. I don't think I'm comfortable going through my toys like that with my mom. Plus it will be a long process as I have somewhere around 300 toys.
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What was her response? One - could she borrow some toys (gross) and two that the setup I have for storage is too cluttered for showing the house. Now she wants to get new bins and help me reorganize all my toys. She's getting me under the bed bins for my "favorites" and closet bins for the rest. I think she intends to go through them one by one with me and go "is this an under the bed or bin one?" I'm disturbed. I don't think I'm comfortable going through my toys like that with my mom. Plus it will be a long process as I have somewhere around 300 toys.
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07/03/2012
No way.
07/03/2012
I don't think I would ever be comfortable doing that with my mother. I've told her I review sex toys, but she has no interest in seeing them. My step-mom knows too, and I've given her a few of my free gifts if I don't like how they look or something, but I would never want her to go through them with me. Ever.
You have to be firm with her. Just tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and that you'd rather just sort through them yourself. If you don't want to share your toys (understandably), tell her to join EF herself!
You have to be firm with her. Just tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and that you'd rather just sort through them yourself. If you don't want to share your toys (understandably), tell her to join EF herself!
07/04/2012
O_O never.
07/04/2012
My mom has no idea about my toys, and I don't think she ever will!
07/04/2012
Oh my shits I would have a episode if my mother EVER found out about my toys. She knows about my lingerie, because I gave her the apron I reviewed because I thought it would fit her better then me, but if she found out, she would have a fit because it would mean my husband is not pleasuring me which is the opposite, he pleasures me very much and having fun with toys together only heightens our sexual pleasure.
07/04/2012
I have to say I wouldn't be ok with that with my mom but I don't have a good relationship with my mom.
07/04/2012
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Perfect response. Really.
Originally posted by
indiglo
Hey, just because you told her about it does NOT give her carte blanche to go through every piece of your collection. There are still boundaries. If she wants to get you some storage bins that's fine, but sounds like you're going to have to
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Hey, just because you told her about it does NOT give her carte blanche to go through every piece of your collection. There are still boundaries. If she wants to get you some storage bins that's fine, but sounds like you're going to have to be really firm. I'd just tell her "thank you for the storage bins, I'll be organizing my collection myself at a different time."
If it makes you uncomfortable (understandably so) be direct and honest. Tell her YOU will go through your stuff ALONE. less
If it makes you uncomfortable (understandably so) be direct and honest. Tell her YOU will go through your stuff ALONE. less
07/04/2012
I don't talk to my mom about anything very sexual. I don't even want to talk to her about which kinds of feminine hygiene products I use!! She's a great mom, but our family keeps this sort of stuff private.
07/04/2012
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It's wonderful that you and your mother-in-law had such a close relationsthip that she trusted you with a BIG secret.
Originally posted by
Talena
My mom knows I review. She has never asked me bout the toys (thank goodness). My mother in law told me about her collection because she felt she was going to pass on. She did end up passing about 6 months later. She told me where to find it, what
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My mom knows I review. She has never asked me bout the toys (thank goodness). My mother in law told me about her collection because she felt she was going to pass on. She did end up passing about 6 months later. She told me where to find it, what was in it, and to not under any circumstances let her best friend (male) or her son (my partner) see the collection.
I would never invite my mom to view my collection, organize it or anything else with it. I would tell her that's too personal. less
I would never invite my mom to view my collection, organize it or anything else with it. I would tell her that's too personal. less
07/05/2012
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I would not be comfortable with this situation at all.
Originally posted by
- Kira -
I finally decided to tell my mom about me reviewing. We're selling our house and she's been coming over to help us get it ready for showing. We had been moving our mass storage in and out of the garage every weekend which got to be a pain.
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I finally decided to tell my mom about me reviewing. We're selling our house and she's been coming over to help us get it ready for showing. We had been moving our mass storage in and out of the garage every weekend which got to be a pain. I figured one day she'd pop over and see it, so it was best to tell her before that happened.
What was her response? One - could she borrow some toys (gross) and two that the setup I have for storage is too cluttered for showing the house. Now she wants to get new bins and help me reorganize all my toys. She's getting me under the bed bins for my "favorites" and closet bins for the rest. I think she intends to go through them one by one with me and go "is this an under the bed or bin one?" I'm disturbed. I don't think I'm comfortable going through my toys like that with my mom. Plus it will be a long process as I have somewhere around 300 toys.
Would you be comfortable doing something like this with your mom? Why or why not? less
What was her response? One - could she borrow some toys (gross) and two that the setup I have for storage is too cluttered for showing the house. Now she wants to get new bins and help me reorganize all my toys. She's getting me under the bed bins for my "favorites" and closet bins for the rest. I think she intends to go through them one by one with me and go "is this an under the bed or bin one?" I'm disturbed. I don't think I'm comfortable going through my toys like that with my mom. Plus it will be a long process as I have somewhere around 300 toys.
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Kira, awkward as it is, I think your mom is really curious about toys
07/05/2012
My mom and I have a weird relationship. We're very open with each other about things, but I don't think I would want her touching my sex toys...
07/08/2012
I've gotten to the point where I'm comfortable discussing sex with my mother and we both are aware that we use sex toys. So I don't think it would be that big of a deal if I were in the same situation. I think she'd probably just tease me about it or end up being a little surprised at some of the stuff in my collection. I came across some of her stuff a couple times when I was growing up, so I guess fair's fair, haha.
09/03/2012
My mom now owns my HITACHI for her back problems!
09/03/2012
No... I mean, I'm pretty sure my mom knows I have toys, but I don't want to show her them, nor do I want her touching them. It would be too awkward.
09/03/2012
No way. That would be awkward
09/03/2012
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HOWEVER, my daughter got me on this site and she and I talk about our toys and share advice all the time... but my mom...ewwww. ~shudders~
Originally posted by
- Kira -
I finally decided to tell my mom about me reviewing. We're selling our house and she's been coming over to help us get it ready for showing. We had been moving our mass storage in and out of the garage every weekend which got to be a pain.
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more
I finally decided to tell my mom about me reviewing. We're selling our house and she's been coming over to help us get it ready for showing. We had been moving our mass storage in and out of the garage every weekend which got to be a pain. I figured one day she'd pop over and see it, so it was best to tell her before that happened.
What was her response? One - could she borrow some toys (gross) and two that the setup I have for storage is too cluttered for showing the house. Now she wants to get new bins and help me reorganize all my toys. She's getting me under the bed bins for my "favorites" and closet bins for the rest. I think she intends to go through them one by one with me and go "is this an under the bed or bin one?" I'm disturbed. I don't think I'm comfortable going through my toys like that with my mom. Plus it will be a long process as I have somewhere around 300 toys.
Would you be comfortable doing something like this with your mom? Why or why not? less
What was her response? One - could she borrow some toys (gross) and two that the setup I have for storage is too cluttered for showing the house. Now she wants to get new bins and help me reorganize all my toys. She's getting me under the bed bins for my "favorites" and closet bins for the rest. I think she intends to go through them one by one with me and go "is this an under the bed or bin one?" I'm disturbed. I don't think I'm comfortable going through my toys like that with my mom. Plus it will be a long process as I have somewhere around 300 toys.
Would you be comfortable doing something like this with your mom? Why or why not? less
09/03/2012
I would say no, that would be way too awkward.
09/03/2012
I don't see a problem with it IF you're comfortable, but I wouldn't be.
09/03/2012
No way that is something for only my husband and myself to deal with.
09/03/2012
NEVER. I hope my mother never knows. When I was over at my parent's house this week, my dad asked me to go get him some medication off his dresser. I was perturbed by the fact that he left flavored lube out right on his dresser.
09/03/2012
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I completely agree with indiglo. Just because you are open with what you do does not mean you need to play show and tell with your collection especially if it makes you uncomfortable. Tell her you appreciate her enthusiasm, but you prefer to do this yourself and it's private for you. Explain to her that if she's that curious you can help her set up her own account on the website and start reviewing
Originally posted by
indiglo
Hey, just because you told her about it does NOT give her carte blanche to go through every piece of your collection. There are still boundaries. If she wants to get you some storage bins that's fine, but sounds like you're going to have to
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more
Hey, just because you told her about it does NOT give her carte blanche to go through every piece of your collection. There are still boundaries. If she wants to get you some storage bins that's fine, but sounds like you're going to have to be really firm. I'd just tell her "thank you for the storage bins, I'll be organizing my collection myself at a different time."
If it makes you uncomfortable (understandably so) be direct and honest. Tell her YOU will go through your stuff ALONE. less
If it makes you uncomfortable (understandably so) be direct and honest. Tell her YOU will go through your stuff ALONE. less
09/03/2012
Yes. Me and my mom are really close. I even got her one for her birthday last month, she named it!LOL
09/03/2012
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i totally agree with you there
Originally posted by
vanilla&chocolate
My mom has no idea about my toys, and I don't think she ever will!
09/03/2012
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oh my gosh.. i'm so sorry
Originally posted by
michael scofield
no my mother found my fleshlight and was horrified
09/03/2012
I would feel very awkward!
09/03/2012
hell no
09/03/2012