I just heard on the radio this morning, the radio DJ has a friend who walked into the office late at night to get his laptop and caught his boss cheating on his wife. He knows the woman, too. He feels morally obligated to say something but has concerns like whether he'll lose his job, whether he could still be blacklisted if he does it anonymously, etc.
So, what would YOU do? He isn't sure if the boss knows that he knows.
Personally, I'd start applying at other jobs because I would feel sick to my stomach working there, and then once I found something I'd tell the wife OR if the boss was the right kind of person, I'd share my feelings and let him know what I saw, explain that it puts ME in a bad position and that I want to leave it alone but I want him to give me a recommendation to get a new job (like a reference letter) and maybe that way, I could find out if perhaps they're in an open relationship, or maybe the boss will show some compassion and make it easier for me by NOT firing me or anything, but we could work it out! If I got a new job though, I'd totally tell the wife.
So, what would YOU do? He isn't sure if the boss knows that he knows.
Personally, I'd start applying at other jobs because I would feel sick to my stomach working there, and then once I found something I'd tell the wife OR if the boss was the right kind of person, I'd share my feelings and let him know what I saw, explain that it puts ME in a bad position and that I want to leave it alone but I want him to give me a recommendation to get a new job (like a reference letter) and maybe that way, I could find out if perhaps they're in an open relationship, or maybe the boss will show some compassion and make it easier for me by NOT firing me or anything, but we could work it out! If I got a new job though, I'd totally tell the wife.
