If you discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner, do you do it in generalities, just discussing the basics, or do you go into deep detail, discussing every little minor detail about who, when, where, why and how?
Your sexual fantasies and your partner...A question?
04/24/2013
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Neither of us are overly open about our desires. It's something that we both need to work on.
04/24/2013
Same here, neither of us discuss it with each other, communication is definitely a constant effort even after 26 years of marriage. I'm not to sure he would be too happy if he heard mine anyway, nope.... don't even want to go there.
04/24/2013
I just share in a general sense. He never shares fantasies with me if he has any.
04/24/2013
Detail, especially when we are lying in bed together.
04/24/2013
Mostly generalities for both of us.
04/24/2013
My boyfriend doesn't really talk about that kind of stuff, I've tried to get him to share his porn collection with me and I shared my porn with him, He knows some of the things i'm interested in but he's not enough of a Dom in the bedroom for any of those things to happen.
04/24/2013
We usually get into some pretty deep detail. The general fantasy is pretty much always the same, but the details make it something unique if we're playing it out.
04/24/2013
Somewhere in between? My fantasies generally have a common theme, but the details differ between each one. I try to communicate aspects that I deem important so that he knows what turns me on.
04/25/2013
We get pretty detailed. It definitely adds to our moments!! It is pretty fun and special to be able to talk about our deepest fantasies together and not worry about the other person judging you.
04/25/2013
We start vague and get more detailed after trying it. I don't want sex to be too scripted ever, but that's what works for us.
04/25/2013
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