The Lover - have you seen it?

Ok, so this is not exactly porn (it may qualify as softcore) but has anyone seen the movie "The Lover"? ... When I was in high school, I was really into Asian men, so I became obsessed with this movie. It's still hot when I think about it, but I don't know if I'd still enjoy it. It'd probably remind me of my ex too much. :-/ I miss those good old days..