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Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
Recently we had a family birthday my 2 daughters came from out of town. One day during lunch with my wife and two daughters, I brought up the subject of sex toys. I thought my wife was going to kill me, by the looks she gave me. I talked about material makeup, safety, use, and a couple of other subjects. I was shocked to hear both daughters owned sex toys. That night my wife told me that each daughter had told her that dad must care a lot about them, for bringing up such a subject to talk about with them. I want to thank Eden, and the people who give feedback in this forum, reviews, advice, ect. for the information, and education I have received from this web site. It is a great free toy, many people overlook.
09/20/2008
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Contributor: Bulma Bulma
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Originally posted by Fun Lover
Recently we had a family birthday my 2 daughters came from out of town. One day during lunch with my wife and two daughters, I brought up the subject of sex toys. I thought my wife was going to kill me, by the looks she gave me. I talked about ... more
Wow. I gotta say, kudos to you! I wish my parents had talked to me about sex period, let alone toys. My dad goes and hides in the garage if the "S" word even comes up in conversation. I think it's great that you took it upon yourself to make sure your daughters were well informed about sex toys. I know I plan to do the same in the far off future when my own children are old enough for the subject to come up. I think sex toys and masturbation usually get left out of the "sex talk" far too often. I hope more parents are taking the same step you took to help educate their children, whether just learning about the subject or if they are grown and already out of the house. Way to go!
09/20/2008
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
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Originally posted by Bulma
Wow. I gotta say, kudos to you! I wish my parents had talked to me about sex period, let alone toys. My dad goes and hides in the garage if the "S" word even comes up in conversation. I think it's great that you took it upon ... more
Thank You Bulma My one daughter has now shared some of the information we talked about with her sister-in-law so you never know. I have also shared information with my son. I think it is important to let people know what you know. And yes this is a subject that isn't talked about much. I just don't want to increase the cancer risk or other issues because of lack of education.
09/20/2008
Contributor: Beautiful Dreamer Beautiful Dreamer
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Originally posted by Fun Lover
Thank You Bulma My one daughter has now shared some of the information we talked about with her sister-in-law so you never know. I have also shared information with my son. I think it is important to let people know what you know. And yes this is a ... more
That's awesome. Open lines of communication can really strengthen a parent/child relationship. I taught my mother (I'm 21, her 46) recently about sex toys. It was an interesting conversation, but she kept me safe about sex when I was younger, and I'll be damned if I don't keep her safe with sex toys. This site has proved to be an invaluable resource.
09/20/2008
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
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Originally posted by Fun Lover
Recently we had a family birthday my 2 daughters came from out of town. One day during lunch with my wife and two daughters, I brought up the subject of sex toys. I thought my wife was going to kill me, by the looks she gave me. I talked about ... more
How awesome! I wish I could talk to my mom about toys. I could recommend some good ones to her, lol. But it would be cool to tell her about mine and tell her about materials and stuff. Probably won't ever happen though... I won't be bringing it up any time soon anyway.
09/20/2008
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
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Originally posted by Beautiful Dreamer
That's awesome. Open lines of communication can really strengthen a parent/child relationship. I taught my mother (I'm 21, her 46) recently about sex toys. It was an interesting conversation, but she kept me safe about sex when I was younger, ... more
How did you bring it up?
09/20/2008
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
Laughing. I brought up sex with my daughter today. She's 13. She changed the subject back to emotional/social relationships. Another day.
09/20/2008
Contributor: Beautiful Dreamer Beautiful Dreamer
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Originally posted by Epiphora
How did you bring it up?
I actually had a sex toy party through pure romance for my 21st birthday last December. I invited all women I knew. This included my grandmother, her friends, & my mother. I've never been the shy one. About 4 months later (April) I found EF and was horrified that most of the things my guests bought weren't really safe and were extremely misrepresented by the seller. I felt somewhat responsible, as I was the one that invited this woman into my home to entertain us.
About a month ago I mentioned that it's scary what people lie about when they claim to be professionals. We had been talking about politics and medical advances. I brought up my birthday party and mentioned how that woman had lied about so many things and explained each.
My family has already had a pretty open relationship. Nothing is really off limits, which is great.
09/21/2008
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
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Originally posted by Beautiful Dreamer
I actually had a sex toy party through pure romance for my 21st birthday last December. I invited all women I knew. This included my grandmother, her friends, & my mother. I've never been the shy one. About 4 months later (April) I found EF ... more
UGH Pure Romance sucks huh? I've been to one too, and although it's fun, I couldn't help but think, "this is made of jelly, isn't it?" about most of the toys. Plus the woman was really heterosexist and the whole thing just had an air of... weirdness... about it. Two conflicting messages: enjoy sex toys freely, but be completely private about it (people had to go into a separate "private" room to order because that was their "policy"). It's tempting to have those parties though just for the free stuff, but yeah, sucks.
09/21/2008
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Definitely kudos to you. While I can talk about such things with many people, I'm not sure a chat with my parents would make me very comfortable.
09/22/2008
Contributor: AnalArtist AnalArtist
WOW, that's great to hear. I have been trying to be more open about me using toys but with some people, I get this like "Only freaks use toys." And not in the mood to go down that road. But that's great you talked to your girls and son about it. Since I believe more women own sex toys then men but shows you care about your kids!
09/22/2008
Contributor: Maria Maria
Congrats! My parents weren't really open about toys or anything with me, but I intend to be open when I have children.
09/23/2008
Contributor: Oggins Oggins
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Originally posted by Fun Lover
Recently we had a family birthday my 2 daughters came from out of town. One day during lunch with my wife and two daughters, I brought up the subject of sex toys. I thought my wife was going to kill me, by the looks she gave me. I talked about ... more
I knew I liked you! =) That is fantastic that you and your kids are open enough to be able to discuss this particular topic! My parents......I guess......figured if they didn't talk to me about sex, I wasn't having sex.....HA! I probably would have fainted if one of them brought up a sex toy discussion. I don't know.....anytime they did talk to me about sex, I always felt like I had done something wrong.....Like I was bad. I mean, don't get me wrong, they are great parents it's just, I think they themselves were embarassed of the whole subject which I realized later on. I've already had "the talk" with my two oldest kids or, at least told them as much as a 10 and 12 year old need to know at this point. I plan on broadening that "talk" as they age to incorporate more topics that they may need to know about and sex toy material is definitely on the list! I don't really care if they do faint...at least they will KNOW! =) I've also told them I am more than willing to even talk to their friends if they need help with this subject. I totally applaud you though Fun Lover! You're right! It is a great free toy! =) When they are old enough, I'll definitely be directing them here as well!
09/23/2008
Contributor: Cock Wrangler Cock Wrangler
HA. My mom tries to be comfortable when I tell her about jobs of mine that involve working with sex toys/sex ed. It's cute.
Came across this article today about talking to daughters about sex. It's decent, though I wish it included all children (it's daughter-specific, for some reason).
09/23/2008
Contributor: BeeLeaveMe BeeLeaveMe
I recently had the pleasure of talking to one of my friends about Eden. I haven't been open about the site to any of my friends. This particular friend is very open about sexual matters. When I started to get into the conversation I thought she'd be really interested in joining. She too owns sex toys and mentioned she needed a new vibrator and I started giving her suggestions. Then she ended the conversation. I was so surprised that it even made her uncomfortable to talk about! She finally told me that it was a little weird.

I can't imagine talking to my mother about toys but my mother-in-law on the other hand, we have conversations about sex all the time. I guess I am very lucky to have such great in-laws and she is not weird about hearing stories about our sex life. I have even talked about sex toys with my boss!
09/23/2008
Contributor: Oggins Oggins
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Originally posted by Cock Wrangler
HA. My mom tries to be comfortable when I tell her about jobs of mine that involve working with sex toys/sex ed. It's cute.Came across this article today about talking to daughters about sex. It's decent, though I wish it included all ... more
That's a pretty interesting article thanks for posting it! I will definitely be sharing this with my daughter! It is daughter-specific though so, won't help much with my two sons.
09/23/2008
Contributor: Snappy Snappy
I'm really impressed with your forthrightness.
09/30/2008
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
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Originally posted by Snappy
I'm really impressed with your forthrightness.
Thanks Snappy. I think it's important to get the word out about toy safety, before someone spends a lot of money on unsafe toys as I did, when I first started buying. My wife's favorite is made of jelly, and it's either don't use it, or use a condom which doesn't give the same feel as without it.
10/02/2008
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
I never got any kind of sex talk from my parents. They have been wonderful about everything else, and I tease back and forth with my mom about how since she hit menopause she and dad are all over each other, but that's it. From the looks of it, my baby sister (13) isn't going to get any guidance from them, either, so I've decided that's going to have to be my job. She already comes to me about things she doesn't feel comfortable talking to our parents about, even if it's as innocent as how to deal friends that are emotional leaches. When the time comes, that article looks like it will come in handy, thanks for posting it!
02/02/2009
Contributor: Tragemony Tragemony
Knowledge is power. I wish there were more people like the people here that would share it.
03/08/2009
Contributor: hoorah1784 hoorah1784
Well talking to your kids about sex, sex toys most likely is just going to incourage them to have sex, and if you want to be a 35 yr old grand parent well then more power to ya. You just ruined your kids childhood
11/19/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by hoorah1784
Well talking to your kids about sex, sex toys most likely is just going to incourage them to have sex, and if you want to be a 35 yr old grand parent well then more power to ya. You just ruined your kids childhood
Like it or not, many teenagers are having sex, and many others would if they could. It's a fact of life, and teaching children nothing about sexual health IS a great way to not only be a 35 year old grandparent but also a 35 year old grandparent with a child infected with an incurable STD.
11/19/2010
Contributor: celibacysucks celibacysucks
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Originally posted by Fun Lover
Recently we had a family birthday my 2 daughters came from out of town. One day during lunch with my wife and two daughters, I brought up the subject of sex toys. I thought my wife was going to kill me, by the looks she gave me. I talked about ... more
I don't think I could have that conversation with my dad. I think we'd both rather walk on nails than deal with the distilled awkwardness of discussing anything relating to sex. It's great that you can be that open with your daughters.
11/19/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
That's awesome to hear! My mom was always great about talking with me about things, anything I wanted to know I could ask her and we'd talk about it. I certainly hope to have that same relationship with my daughters when they get older. It's important for them to know that there's nothing wrong with having sexual feelings. Great job for talking with your daughters about it!
11/21/2010
Contributor: Just Jen Just Jen
I wish that sex and sex toys would be talked about more. We have always had sex, it's nothing new. It shouldn't be so taboo!
11/24/2010
Contributor: iLashe iLashe
talking about open and loving relationships with yourself and your own feelings sexual and otherwise encourages a well balanced sense of a life as such. people making love is creative if seen as such. And not putting a conscious ban on love is an incredible truth to share with loved ones. Thinking of your child as a product that should live within bounds of existence that you predetermine is fucked up and controlling. If you happen to be blessed with a grandchild at age 35 that's incredible, you'll maybe see 3 or 4 generations of life touched by your love and grace.
05/03/2011