The New Intimacy

:Ladies, at what age does a guy who is flirting with you cease to be a "guy flirting with you" and becomes, instead, a "dirty old man" (the "he's such a perv") guy???

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Of course I understand this question is going to be answered different by someone 18, verses someone 48....but I am wondering HOW the demographics spread out???

We had a discussion with friends about "what constitutes a "Dirty Old Man"???
03/27/2012
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Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Being in my early 20's, depending on the person and how they act I would say that about someone who is at the least in their late 30s.
03/27/2012
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I'm in my early 20s as well, and I'd say that someone in their 50s and beyond would be "dirty old man." My father is 54. Anyone around his age (+/- 10 years) and beyond would definitely be pervy, nor would I date anyone that old.

Full disclosure, my partner is in his very early 40s.
03/27/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Maybe if the person is old enough to be your parent? I've wondered about this too...
03/28/2012
Contributor: jennifur77 jennifur77
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Of course I understand this question is going to be answered different by someone 18, verses someone 48....but I am wondering HOW the demographics spread out???

We had a discussion with friends about "what constitutes a "Dirty Old Man"???
I look about 15 years younger than I am. So for me, I'm okay with anyone flirting with me until they get to about age 50. Some older guy tried to pick me up while I was buying corn in the grocery store one day. Um, no.
05/03/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
I'm getting ready to turn 20 and my boyfriend is 32. We joke and call him a dirty old man, but I love him. Someone too old would probably be in their 40s.
05/03/2012
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
I'm going on 27 in a few days and I've always preferred men bit older than me (around 10-20 years older) so for me it becomes "dirty old man" when their in their 50's. But then again I've have them in their 20's/30's/40's come off as creepy too.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I call my hubby a dirty old man. He is 42 and I'm 23. I love dirty old men. It never bothers me unless they are inappropriate. I never really call anyone besides my hubby a dirty old man.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I'm 26 and I love attention from dirty old men as long as they're respectful of my boundaries. I prefer to date men a little older than me, but I think I would draw the line around 32-34, so about 8 years my senior.

**Let me just say that if I found the perfect man who happened to be significantly older, all my age requirements would fly out the window.
05/05/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
I'm 20 and I feel like a dirty man would be someone in the mid30s range and up? But it could also just be how they go about flirting that makes them sleazy
12/10/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
I'm 20, and I always think it is cute when really old men (like grandpa status 70+) flirt with me. But it's because they flirt without intention.

For me, it isn't about an age so much as an attention. If you have that look that makes me freaked out to begin with and then feed me that "how you doin" line as you stare directly at my tits, you are a dirty old man even if you are only like 5 years older than me.
12/10/2012
Contributor: wildshores wildshores
in my early 20s. i consider all men who hit on me creepy but there's a super creep level when he's like 35-up
12/10/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Guy, girl or anyone in-between, if you're old enough to be my parent, I don't want to get hit on by you! I don't know, even 10 years is pushing it for me because I'm young.
12/10/2012