Age has nothing to do with it. I've met 18 years olds that were as sweet as pie and 40 year olds that were total jerks. Each individual's personality, morals and upbringing play a part in their ability to treat a woman or man with respect. Maybe some men get "better" as they get older, but I don't think it's a rule by any means.
Which age group of men do you think treats women better?
01/16/2011
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Girl With Fire said: "Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men aren't."
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
I chose 26+ but my real answer is: When they go from wanting to fuck us to wanting to love us. (Not love as in "make love", love as in care for and about). Even then I think it takes a few years, and some of them never actually figure out
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I chose 26+ but my real answer is: When they go from wanting to fuck us to wanting to love us. (Not love as in "make love", love as in care for and about). Even then I think it takes a few years, and some of them never actually figure out how to love us, only to appreciate how WE love THEM. In my experience very few men (boys) under 25 are aware of much other than themselves. I have a feeling that the Eden crowd doesn't speak for the majority of men as we all are an open bunch here and willing to share openly.
Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men aren't. Both my younger brothers are total sweethearts, and many of my male friends have me baffled by how wonderfully they treat the women they are with. Secondly and equally as important, when terms are used grouping all men as a unit, you are not only setting a standard for what is acceptable male behavior (not good behavior, just expected), and secondly you are not holding the individual accountable for a CHOICE they have made. Sure a lot of men make stupid choices, but the more of them that do it without consequence, and the more women expect it of them the more likely they are to behave poorly. If every time a man did something horrible to a woman there was an awful consequence for them, I bet a lot less men would be interested in duplicating that behavior.
Just so we are clear here, I don't think women are saints by any means. The same is true of us, if we are held to higher standards and not graded on a curve, we would have more motivation to actually think about our actions beforehand.
I have heard the statement "you only have to be 1/3 as nice to a girl as you are an ass. I have seen that statement come true OVER AND OVER again. We need to be holding each other to a higher standard. On both sides. less
Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men aren't. Both my younger brothers are total sweethearts, and many of my male friends have me baffled by how wonderfully they treat the women they are with. Secondly and equally as important, when terms are used grouping all men as a unit, you are not only setting a standard for what is acceptable male behavior (not good behavior, just expected), and secondly you are not holding the individual accountable for a CHOICE they have made. Sure a lot of men make stupid choices, but the more of them that do it without consequence, and the more women expect it of them the more likely they are to behave poorly. If every time a man did something horrible to a woman there was an awful consequence for them, I bet a lot less men would be interested in duplicating that behavior.
Just so we are clear here, I don't think women are saints by any means. The same is true of us, if we are held to higher standards and not graded on a curve, we would have more motivation to actually think about our actions beforehand.
I have heard the statement "you only have to be 1/3 as nice to a girl as you are an ass. I have seen that statement come true OVER AND OVER again. We need to be holding each other to a higher standard. On both sides. less
HEAR HEAR! I hate when anyone thinks anyone is an ass or a bitch just because of their gender alone. Actions are what is important.
01/16/2011
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It sets us up for failure.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Girl With Fire said: "Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men
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Girl With Fire said: "Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men aren't."
HEAR HEAR! I hate when anyone thinks anyone is an ass or a bitch just because of their gender alone. Actions are what is important. less
HEAR HEAR! I hate when anyone thinks anyone is an ass or a bitch just because of their gender alone. Actions are what is important. less
01/16/2011
Age doesn't always equal maturity. I've met "boys" that are 30+!! It all depends on what they experienced in the home growing up and the people they're around. To throw people in categories based on age is inaccurate and unfair. There's a lot of women that treat men poorly. I could go on about immaturity & selfishness in relationships seen by the women in my very own family.
01/16/2011
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Exactly.
Originally posted by
Emma (Girl With Fire)
I chose 26+ but my real answer is: When they go from wanting to fuck us to wanting to love us. (Not love as in "make love", love as in care for and about). Even then I think it takes a few years, and some of them never actually figure out
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I chose 26+ but my real answer is: When they go from wanting to fuck us to wanting to love us. (Not love as in "make love", love as in care for and about). Even then I think it takes a few years, and some of them never actually figure out how to love us, only to appreciate how WE love THEM. In my experience very few men (boys) under 25 are aware of much other than themselves. I have a feeling that the Eden crowd doesn't speak for the majority of men as we all are an open bunch here and willing to share openly.
Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men aren't. Both my younger brothers are total sweethearts, and many of my male friends have me baffled by how wonderfully they treat the women they are with. Secondly and equally as important, when terms are used grouping all men as a unit, you are not only setting a standard for what is acceptable male behavior (not good behavior, just expected), and secondly you are not holding the individual accountable for a CHOICE they have made. Sure a lot of men make stupid choices, but the more of them that do it without consequence, and the more women expect it of them the more likely they are to behave poorly. If every time a man did something horrible to a woman there was an awful consequence for them, I bet a lot less men would be interested in duplicating that behavior.
Just so we are clear here, I don't think women are saints by any means. The same is true of us, if we are held to higher standards and not graded on a curve, we would have more motivation to actually think about our actions beforehand.
I have heard the statement "you only have to be 1/3 as nice to a girl as you are an ass. I have seen that statement come true OVER AND OVER again. We need to be holding each other to a higher standard. On both sides. less
Just for the record I think women need to stop using phrases like "all men are pigs", "what do you expect he's a man" and "men are just jerks". First off, some men aren't. Both my younger brothers are total sweethearts, and many of my male friends have me baffled by how wonderfully they treat the women they are with. Secondly and equally as important, when terms are used grouping all men as a unit, you are not only setting a standard for what is acceptable male behavior (not good behavior, just expected), and secondly you are not holding the individual accountable for a CHOICE they have made. Sure a lot of men make stupid choices, but the more of them that do it without consequence, and the more women expect it of them the more likely they are to behave poorly. If every time a man did something horrible to a woman there was an awful consequence for them, I bet a lot less men would be interested in duplicating that behavior.
Just so we are clear here, I don't think women are saints by any means. The same is true of us, if we are held to higher standards and not graded on a curve, we would have more motivation to actually think about our actions beforehand.
I have heard the statement "you only have to be 1/3 as nice to a girl as you are an ass. I have seen that statement come true OVER AND OVER again. We need to be holding each other to a higher standard. On both sides. less
01/16/2011
between 26-35.
04/10/2011
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HAHAHA!!! True true!
Originally posted by
Riccio
Airen, as always, I agree with you, but why the "errr"? Aren't "guys" and "idiots" synonyms?
On another note. I dont think there really is a certain age group. I think it depends on the individual. My mother-in-law did a wonderful job on raising my husband and taught him to treat all women with the upmost respect. There are other men that I know like that and their ages range on a wide scale. My husband is 25 and one of my good guy friends he's 28 and I hate to say it but he can be a real a*hole sometimes. So yeah. I think it just depends on the person and their upbringing.
04/10/2011
The older the man, the better he treats you. My hubby is 19 years my senior and currently 46, we met when he was 40 so I put 36-45, he still is the greatest man in bed that I have been with and I was with men from 18 to 30 and he has been the best! He cares about me and my orgasms first then himself.
04/10/2011
I have to agree with SexySarah, older men have always treated me better.
04/10/2011
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I would say the question meant in general not just sex wise so it wouldn't really count if they were cheating now would it?
Originally posted by
Trashley
I've been with a lot of men, but the ones who treated me with the most respect and tried their hardest to get me to orgasm before even thinking about themselves were 45+.. but then again, they were all cheating on their wives and long term
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I've been with a lot of men, but the ones who treated me with the most respect and tried their hardest to get me to orgasm before even thinking about themselves were 45+.. but then again, they were all cheating on their wives and long term girlfriends. Don't really know if that balances it out, but..
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04/10/2011
Im not sure it really depends on the person not just the age.
04/10/2011
I have no clue.. I've never been with anyone more then.. 1 year older then me! Lol
04/11/2011
The older they are the better it seems they treat women
04/11/2011
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Ditto for me. I put 45+ because that is the category my man is in also, but I don't know how most men in that age group treat the women in their lives. I think it really does depend on the person.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
You make a good point. I put over 45 because that is the age of My Man and most of his friends. Now that I think about it, I don't know how most of them treat their women in bed, to be honest. A lot of them do complain about being "cut
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You make a good point. I put over 45 because that is the age of My Man and most of his friends. Now that I think about it, I don't know how most of them treat their women in bed, to be honest. A lot of them do complain about being "cut off" so I don't know if that's something more older women do (NOT ME!) or if they just aren't good enough in bed to keep their women interested.
However, many men this age do seem to have manners and treat women with some respect. At least in public.
But, I think you are right, every man is different. I would hate to be judged on my age alone. I don't think I'm "typical" for a woman my age. less
However, many men this age do seem to have manners and treat women with some respect. At least in public.
But, I think you are right, every man is different. I would hate to be judged on my age alone. I don't think I'm "typical" for a woman my age. less
04/11/2011
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I think med twenties and early 30
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Which age group of men do you think treats women better?
04/12/2011
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No I take that back med 30 To early fourties
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Which age group of men do you think treats women better?
04/12/2011
It just depends on the person really
04/13/2011
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I'm 19 and I voted 45+. They're usually stuck in their "treat a woman RIGHT" roots, and I like that!
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Which age group of men do you think treats women better?
06/09/2011
Mostly older men, They've been around and know a thing or two. I have met some young men that do treat women like the queen they are. I just guess it also depends on the person and how they were raised. Also too the relationship between the parents play a role too. If a guy sees his dad/stepdad treat there mom and sisters good, they are more likely to be the same way. These are my personal thoughts.
06/10/2011
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lmaoooooooooo now thats funny
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
Where's the 'passed on' option?
06/10/2011
I can only vote for myself haha
06/10/2011
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Wow, you hit the nail RIGHT on the head!
Originally posted by
Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
26 - 35 option, definitely. Any younger and they're just boys. Any older and they turn into selfish, pompous, arrogant assholes.
No offense to the younger or older guys here. I don't think it goes for ALL men of those ages, but in my own personal experiences I've just found this to be too true.
06/10/2011
I voted for the 26-35, but I personally believe that it's not so much age but each individual...
02/01/2012
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This is my answer here, pretty much.
Originally posted by
Alicia
I don't think that any age group treats women better. I think it always depends on the individual. Sure there's periods in some men's life where they are better than others..just like there is for women, but I don't think age is the
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I don't think that any age group treats women better. I think it always depends on the individual. Sure there's periods in some men's life where they are better than others..just like there is for women, but I don't think age is the main factor. I know people who are assholes their entire life and people who are sweethearts for their entire life. It all depends on the person and age really is only a number and you can't just base everything off a year someone was born.
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02/01/2012
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older and wiser.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Which age group of men do you think treats women better?
02/03/2012
the young ones just want the vag, the older ones want a relationship
02/14/2012
I have to say that older men treat you better and from experience 40 and over.
02/14/2012
Perhaps the early thirties, around the time they're interested in getting married.
03/16/2012
My bf is 19 but he is one in a million. I'd say 24-34 are the sweetest young guys and old grandpas are generally pretty sweet to but that's just in a grandpa type way
03/16/2012
I've learned through experience that men who are older have more respect and are less selfish. The younger ones, well it's VERY hard to find a totally respectful one.
03/16/2012