Do you prefer to take someone out, or be taken out?

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Do you prefer to take someone out, or be taken out?

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Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I tend to enjoy the later but only if I have money to help pay for it.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Be Taken Out
Joie de Cherresse , tigerkate , Shellz31 , P'Gell , froggiemoma , Bunnycups , lisa1 , CuteDee , K101 , Rachel Nunez , Taylor , w-o-name , MaryExy , Purpleladybug , sexxxkitten , Sera26
16  (33%)
Take Them Out
Lady Marmelade , Rainbow Boy , ellejay , bunny love
4  (8%)
Both
Sweet-Justice , indiglo , Waterfall , cobiffle , UnknownGirl , cherie2188 , Lithaewyn , pinkcupcakes , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Enchantedkitty , Tart , darthkitt3n , padmeamidala , GravyCakes , liilii080 , sexy19364 , Liz2 , LavenderSkies , sexygoddess , kelaaa33wish , Judas Iscars , Dyma , link82 , potstickers , brevado , Trysexual
26  (53%)
Other(because there has to be an other)
BusyMe , Deeder , KrissyNovacaine
3  (6%)
Total votes: 49
Poll is closed
03/29/2011
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Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I like both. Being taken out is wonderful, but sometimes it's nice to show your partner a good time too.
03/30/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I like being taken out.
03/30/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I wish my girl would take me out n pay for a dinner sometime.
03/30/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
It's nice to take turns.
03/30/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I like to be taken out...

My boyfriend doesn't have a car, so he never really TAKES me out...
03/30/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I like to be taken out, but I like to pay my share!
03/30/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Take me out. Spend money on me. I'm a girl.

Nuff said.
03/30/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
i like to be taken out
03/30/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I like to take my boyfriend out. I tend to feel uncomfortable when someone else pays for me. I also like to indulge in fancy drinks and other stuff that he wouldn't get for himself. I don't feel like he should pay for my silly indulgences. I love to treat him to a nice evening. Besides, he usually pays for gas
03/30/2011
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I tend to enjoy the later but only if I have money to help pay for it.
I like both.
03/31/2011
Contributor: BusyMe BusyMe
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I tend to enjoy the later but only if I have money to help pay for it.
I like plan C do whatever... I mean come on who wants to have a whole date planned out for someone you dont even know..
03/31/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Take me out. Spend money on me. I'm a girl.



Nuff said.
Haha, yes!
03/31/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I tend to enjoy the later but only if I have money to help pay for it.
I also voted for both.
03/31/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I tend to enjoy the later but only if I have money to help pay for it.
my bf & i take turns paying for dates. we keep track of whose turn it is & if we go out to eat, whoever's turn it is to pay the other person has to pick up the tip.
05/05/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I like them both as long as my partner appreciates the work I put in to planning a great date.
05/05/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Im a girl and I love to be wined and dined. But I have also offered to pay for my meal on 1st dates or if we see a movie, he buys tix and I get treats.
05/05/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I'm a lot like the person above, CuteDee. I always offered on first dates and sadly, ended up being used in one case a little bit. But, with my current partner, when we were first together (and still) I always try to pay for stuff. Not the regular chicken bites from Krystal though. Lol Those are my fav. But, anytime we buy something or go out to eat, I try to pay. He likes taking me out and doing things for me. He told me lastnight that he wanted to do something sweet for me. It's been a while since he's taken me out. I take him out on B-days and sometimes V-day though.
05/11/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
I tend to enjoy the later but only if I have money to help pay for it.
Both
05/12/2011
Contributor: sexygoddess sexygoddess
I like both.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Rachel Nunez Rachel Nunez
Taken out
05/12/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'd rather be taken out. I do take him out sometimes, but he pays much more often then I do. I think that's reasonable though since he makes about 3 times as much as I do.
05/12/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
Take someone out
05/12/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
I prefer to be taken out
05/18/2011
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I like to be taken out.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I like to be taken out sometimes but it's also cool to go dutch. I haven't taken a man out on a date yet. However whenever my man can't afford a little something that he wants here and there I'll get it for him, just like he'd do for me.
09/29/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Both can be nice
09/29/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I don't mind paying (technically I pay either way, since I make more money than my husband), but I HATE having to choose where we go. I like that part to be a surprise.
09/29/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I like taking a woman out.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Both
09/29/2012