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Contributor: Badass Badass
Does your date get bonus points if they open the doors for you on a first date?
02/14/2012
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Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
Yes.
02/14/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
Of course!
02/14/2012
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
They get triple points if they open the door for anyone, male or female. A genuine consideration for the comfort of others is wonderful. My man also stands for ladies joining or leaving the table, or a sitting conversation, and tends to sit last.
02/14/2012
Contributor: ginger715 ginger715
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Originally posted by Badass
Does your date get bonus points if they open the doors for you on a first date?
sure do
02/14/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Male here, always open doors for pretty much anyone regardless if I am on a date or not, guess it is my Southern hospitality! Life is too short to not be considerate to others in my humble opinion.
02/14/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
oh totally. even though i like guys who can be dumb and silly like i am, i'd hope he'd act like a gentleman.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
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Originally posted by MrWishyWashy
Male here, always open doors for pretty much anyone regardless if I am on a date or not, guess it is my Southern hospitality! Life is too short to not be considerate to others in my humble opinion.
Thank you! I wish everyone felt this way.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
Probably not. It's a nice thing to do, but it's not necessarily a big deal to me.
02/14/2012
Contributor: NurseKitty NurseKitty
yup and triple point if he helps me into and out of my c oat. The guy that did that for me cashed in his points and upgrade to "husband" status
02/14/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by MrWishyWashy
Male here, always open doors for pretty much anyone regardless if I am on a date or not, guess it is my Southern hospitality! Life is too short to not be considerate to others in my humble opinion.
GOOD MAN!
02/14/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by NurseKitty
yup and triple point if he helps me into and out of my c oat. The guy that did that for me cashed in his points and upgrade to "husband" status
That's adorable.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Llewey Llewey
I open doors for strangers all the time, gender regardless.

If I'm on a date, I expect them to do the same. I'd get miffed if they didn't, or they did for me but closed the door in the face of someone right behind me.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I open/hold doors for everybody by default. (Unless I'm approaching my car directly toward the driver's side... I won't walk all the way around the car to open their door first, because in that case they'd be standing waiting longer than if I just opened my own door and unlocked theirs from inside.)

If somebody opens/holds a door for me I usually wind up bobbing on one foot for half a second before my instinct steps back and lets someone do something nice for me... date or strangers at the hardware store, no matter what.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Jaimes
They get triple points if they open the door for anyone, male or female. A genuine consideration for the comfort of others is wonderful. My man also stands for ladies joining or leaving the table, or a sitting conversation, and tends to sit last.
wow! What a gentleman. I would kill to have a man with those kind of mannerisms
02/14/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
My current boyfriend will hold doors, close my car door, and push my chair in at a restaurant. I always thought it would die out with the wooing phase, but he still does it years later!
02/15/2012