Guys: Just a fling or something more?

Guys: Just a fling or something more?

Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
Ok so my question is more for the guys but anyone please feel free to answer. As a girl, I have in my past often been left to wonder whether the "secret" sex I had been having with a close guy friend was just sex to him or more. Of course I wanted it to be more so I would sit and dissect every little thing to try and decode what it all meant. So guys, is there signs or things that us girls should look for in those moments that give away whether or not there are feelings involved? I only bring this up because I got to thinking a few nights ago about this guy I was crazy about in high school and we would hook up a lot and how I never really found out what it all meant because we went separate ways after graduating. The memories came back and I would just really like to know what some of it all meant. One thing I keep coming back to is he would sometimes kiss me on the forehead. You may think I am crazy, but to me, a kiss on the forehead is one of the sweetest things a guy can do and I feel like would almost scream that there are feelings there. What do you all thing?
01/19/2012
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Ghost Ghost
Well, I think the best way to resolve these issues is to communicate honestly about your intentions, both before and after interaction. In general, I don't mess with people who aren't going to be straight up about what they want. Some people are just more affectionate than others, whether they want a fling or otherwise, so obviously they may end up "tricking" partners into thinking they want something more than just a one night stand. I'm not sure what to tell you about "signs to look for", as I don't play that game and never will.
01/20/2012
Ansley Ansley
Ask him. It's really quite that simple.
01/20/2012
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I had a girl that I was really good friends with, and then we started messing around. Nothing to big, just some heavy petting and stuff. Before I knew it, I dropped my on a again off again girlfriend, and started dating her. We were married within a year. So things can happen like that.
01/20/2012
Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Ask him. It's really quite that simple.
This was something from my past that I was just pondering on the other night and wanted some input! I have not seen or spoken to this person in a long time so I can't just ask him! I wish I would have back then but I was way to young and scared!
01/20/2012
Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Purpleladybug
This was something from my past that I was just pondering on the other night and wanted some input! I have not seen or spoken to this person in a long time so I can't just ask him! I wish I would have back then but I was way to young and scared!
Oh, lol. I must have misunderstood. Sorry.
01/20/2012
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