Do you guys think it's normal to take it to the next level after dating for 4 months?

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Do you guys think it's normal to take it to the next level after dating for 4 months?

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Contributor: OrangeKushBB OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before "complicating" things?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Move forward
T-n-T , Undead , Lover of Leather , curious kitten , Subska , InNeedOfABuzzzz , 31 Flavors , Sweet-n-Playful
8  (30%)
Keep it at the pace it's at
Ryuson , Dnice , Ice1 , Hallmar82 , Ghost , EdenJP , deltalima , Gunsmoke , K101 , SexyStuff , (k)InkyIvy , Azule , potstickers , Supervixen , Martiniman , JessieDawg , malantha , hhh
18  (67%)
Keep playing the field
ViVix
1  (4%)
Total votes: 27
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01/27/2012
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
It would help to know what you mean by the 'next level'! Do you mean intercourse? Move in together? Meet his parents?

Whatever you mean, just let it come naturally!
01/27/2012
Contributor: T-n-T T-n-T
My husband and I both new by this time that we were going to get married. He asked me after six months and we got married a year and two weeks after we first met.We hve now been together nine years and married 8. When you know you know. Actually most marriage professionals say that the guy will know in the first year and that if he doesn't ask you to marry him definately by year two then it is time to move on. Good luck and I hope my input helps. By all means though don't move in with him till after the wedding...
01/27/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'm also curious to know what you meant by 'the next level'? Like Ryuson said, just let things happen naturally.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Subbi Subbi
I agree with Ryuson!
01/27/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
A rule of thumb, if you have any doubts, don't do it.
01/27/2012
Contributor: EvilHomer EvilHomer
"The next level" is a very vague term that varies from person to person.
01/27/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before ... more
Keep it at the pace it's at
01/27/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
It would help to know what you mean by the 'next level'! Do you mean intercourse? Move in together? Meet his parents?

Whatever you mean, just let it come naturally!
Yeah. Next level physically?
01/28/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
It would help to know what you mean by the 'next level'! Do you mean intercourse? Move in together? Meet his parents?

Whatever you mean, just let it come naturally!
Makes sense to me - actually the question is too vague to give any good advice.
01/28/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before ... more
I've never had a successful relationship when things were taken THAT fast except with my current partner and that's by some crazy miracle! Lol. I think the best way to go is wait a couple more months just to be a little more sure. Do what you feel is best though. It's not up to anyone but you two.
01/28/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
If you feel comfortable go for it.
01/28/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before ... more
That is a really personal decision that only you and your partner can make. We can offer advice or annecdotal stories but we'd need more about what you consider to be the next step!
01/28/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Move comfortably forward, don't force things and back off if it gets weird.
01/28/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
My love and I were together from almost day 1. It was almost 15 years when he passed away and I still love and miss him.
03/12/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before ... more
I had to vote to keep playing the field because nobody else did.
03/12/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Nobody can really say what's right for you in your relationship. If something feels right (in this case, taking the "next step), then go for it. But only if it feels right. Nobody can judge when the timing is right for your relationship but you and your partner.
03/12/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by OrangeKushBB
I met this guy in class about 6 months ago, and we've been dating for about 4. Things are definitely progressing and I feel we're about to take it to the next level. Do you think I should just enjoy dating and what we have now before ... more
I don't know what you mean by the "next level." Sex? Moving in together (kinda early for that) Engagement? (really early for that) "Going steady?" Do people do that anymore?

I really want to know what YOU mean by "complicating" things and the next level. We have no idea where you are right now.
03/12/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by T-n-T
My husband and I both new by this time that we were going to get married. He asked me after six months and we got married a year and two weeks after we first met.We hve now been together nine years and married 8. When you know you know. Actually most ... more
I dunno if I agree with those "Marriage professionals." When I was with my now husband a year, I was only 17 years old. Married at 18? No way!

It depends on the person. In fact, at our 2 year mark, we were involved in an Open Relationship and I was in college. I was in no way ready to get married for a while.
03/12/2012
Contributor: InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
The answer is what feels right, NOT what anyone else thinks about it. Some people go years before getting crazy serious and some go a few weeks. It works if it's right, if it's not, better find out now!
03/16/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
Move forward.
11/05/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
It's about what is right for you. Different relationships progress differently.
11/05/2012
Contributor: butts butts
you're not really clear on what you mean by the "next level"... Just do what you're comfortable with and don't worry about "normality" or "time limits".
11/05/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
That's such a personal decision and is based on two unique individuals. Play it by what you feel in your heart.
11/05/2012
Contributor: JessieDawg JessieDawg
Hard to say without more information? Play it safe, don't rush
11/05/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
It would help to know what you mean by the 'next level'! Do you mean intercourse? Move in together? Meet his parents?

Whatever you mean, just let it come naturally!
I wholeheartedly agree with Ryuson's statement! Just let it happen!
11/06/2012