Is it just me or is it harder to find quality men to date? It seems like the older I get, the harder it gets to find a good man. Does anyone feel like this?
                    
                    
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                        Because the quality ones have already been taken in marriage. :-/
                        
                        
                        07/26/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I have friends who have talked a lot about this and it seems to me that it isn't the quality of men that are lacking as much as it is meeting them. When we were younger there were no end to avenues of socializing. Now that we are older-and wiser-there are definite places we have cut out of meeting appropriate people. Why--the quality of people we would meet in certain places are not what we are looking for anymore. No more barflies, lounge lizards, etc.
                        
                        
                        07/26/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        I agree to this completely !
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                                            js250
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    I have friends who have talked a lot about this and it seems to me that it isn't the quality of men that are lacking as much as it is meeting them. When we were younger there were no end to avenues of socializing. Now that we are older-and
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                                                    I have friends who have talked a lot about this and it seems to me that it isn't the quality of men that are lacking as much as it is meeting them. When we were younger there were no end to avenues of socializing. Now that we are older-and wiser-there are definite places we have cut out of meeting appropriate people. Why--the quality of people we would meet in certain places are not what we are looking for anymore. No more barflies, lounge lizards, etc.
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                                        It also may be that as we've gotten older we know exactly what we want in a partner and we don't compromise .
07/27/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        sorry
                        
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                                            CaliGirl
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Is it just me or is it harder to find quality men to date? It seems like the older I get, the harder it gets to find a good man. Does anyone feel like this?
                                        
                                    03/11/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Sadly many people, men and women, having been wounded through bad earlier relationships, are very reluctant to give it another go.
                        
                        
                        03/11/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Im an older man 47, and it goes the same for men. It is very very hard to meet a quality woman. Especially for men like me that dont go to clubs or bars, etc.. That's not where I would want to meet a partner anyway. Luckily I did find my love on a Christian dating site.
                        
                        
                        03/20/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        im happily married,so thank goodness i dont have to deal with dating.
                        
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                                            CaliGirl
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Is it just me or is it harder to find quality men to date? It seems like the older I get, the harder it gets to find a good man. Does anyone feel like this?
                                        
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