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What do you do when he/she claims there is nothing wrong but dont't want to see you.

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Contributor: hot n spicey hot n spicey
I am curious about what others would do. I am in a situation where I was away for a week and during this time eventhough I made attempts we did not really talk. Now when I ask what is wrong it is ""I am fine dont come over just call." Now we have been together for 4 years and now all of a sudden he is fine without me.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Go to his house and confront him
10
just call and see if he talks about what is bothering him
5
just leave it and let him decide when he wants to talk
2
Total votes: 17 (16 voters)
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03/19/2012
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Contributor: Badass Badass
Call him, and if he doesn't answer, pay him a visit.. or even just drive by, if you see an extra car there an open window with two naked bodies.. you know whats up.
03/20/2012
Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
"I am fine dont come over just call."

That sounds like he has someone else over.
03/20/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Visit him. Something is up...
03/20/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by Petite Valentine
"I am fine dont come over just call."

That sounds like he has someone else over.
My thoughts too!

It's definitely a red flag.
03/20/2012
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
I would drop in and see what's up.
03/20/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
I would drop by but be prepared to walk away. It sounds like he's wanting to move on and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to see you?
03/20/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
That sounds really fishy to me. You being gone for a week and you want to spend time with him but he don't want you to come by. I would go by and see what is going on. You never know if he is slipping up on you. I would not trust anything he is telling you right now.
03/20/2012
Contributor: hot n spicey hot n spicey
So I decided to just drop in and it turns out he was alone. We work together so me being gone for a week made things a little harder on him then expected. He did not want to take his frusturation out on me. Talking really helped though and things are better now. Thank all of you!!!
03/21/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Quote:
Originally posted by hot n spicey
So I decided to just drop in and it turns out he was alone. We work together so me being gone for a week made things a little harder on him then expected. He did not want to take his frusturation out on me. Talking really helped though and things are ... more
That is cool glad everything is going well. Communication is key.
03/21/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by hot n spicey
I am curious about what others would do. I am in a situation where I was away for a week and during this time eventhough I made attempts we did not really talk. Now when I ask what is wrong it is ""I am fine dont come over just call." ... more
I would dump him you deserve better and you shouldn't settle for someone who acts like an asshole
06/19/2012