I'm considering dating this guy and he said he wants to see us go somewhere, but he wants to take it slow...then he implies that he wants to have sex with me. so, what does he mean by take it slow then? -sigh- men, so confusing...almost as confusing as women lol
How do you describe "taking it slow"
11/02/2011
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I think that everyone's "taking it slow" is different. I think things can also change once you get to know a person. When I met my guy I wanted to take things slow, but then there we are, first time meeting in person after only texting for a week, and all bets were off on that one!
11/02/2011
Wow, that is def confusing! I guess taking it slow could mean being more emotional guarded or taking things slow physically. I have a feeling your guy just doesn't want his heart broken. Its extremely scary putting your self out there and being open and who you are.
11/03/2011
I found out last night that he did indeed have his heart broken. He was married a few years back and she left him because he wasn't home very often. Thing is, the reason he was never home, was because he was deployed. I get that some women can't handle having a man that is always gone due to his commitment to his country, but if you can't handle it, don't marry a soldier.
11/04/2011
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I agree.
Originally posted by
grace
Wow, that is def confusing! I guess taking it slow could mean being more emotional guarded or taking things slow physically. I have a feeling your guy just doesn't want his heart broken. Its extremely scary putting your self out there and being
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Wow, that is def confusing! I guess taking it slow could mean being more emotional guarded or taking things slow physically. I have a feeling your guy just doesn't want his heart broken. Its extremely scary putting your self out there and being open and who you are.
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11/09/2011
Turns out the guy was a scum bag anyway. He didn't tell me he had 3 kids...and another on the way...
11/12/2011
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WOW, what a douche. Nothing wrong with having kids but don't have a partner that doesn't know this about you.
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Lickable Lollie
Turns out the guy was a scum bag anyway. He didn't tell me he had 3 kids...and another on the way...
11/12/2011
Exactly. I love kids. He took a while to tell me he had been married, and that's fine, but he should have told me about his kids when he told me about his ex.
11/12/2011
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Wow, at least you found out before you gave him child number 4.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
Exactly. I love kids. He took a while to tell me he had been married, and that's fine, but he should have told me about his kids when he told me about his ex.
11/20/2011
Someone else is already working on number 4
11/20/2011
Well, slow enough to find out stuff like that. Congrats on dodging that bullet, Lollie!
11/20/2011
Got that right! lol
11/20/2011
Ugh. I hate dating these days. But like above.. grats for dodging the bullet hehe
11/20/2011
It does suck really bad these days. You never know if they guy is a douche bag or just in it for the sex or what. Every time I find a guy that seems worth it, something gets in the way!
11/20/2011
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I'm glad you found out that he is such an asshole before you got in too far.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
It does suck really bad these days. You never know if they guy is a douche bag or just in it for the sex or what. Every time I find a guy that seems worth it, something gets in the way!
05/05/2012
It depends a lot on the guys. Some people think you can have the physical and develop the emotional, some think you want to develop the emotional first. The other thing is making sure that he meant what you thought he meant, since implications can be tricky.
05/06/2012
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