How far down the road do you discuss with your partner

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Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Just curious how far into the future others discuss with their partner. My girlfriend and of (of 1.5 years) have discussed 5 years into the future.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
A week
5  (7%)
A month
7  (10%)
Up to 3 months
Up to 6 months
5  (7%)
Up to 12 months
13  (19%)
Up to 2 years
3  (4%)
Up to 5 years
3  (4%)
10 years plus
31  (46%)
Total votes: 67
Poll is closed
08/18/2012
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Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
It's casual so not far at all
08/18/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Honestly, it depends where I'm at in the relationship. If it just started, I'll make plans to hang out a week or two from now. However, when I was engaged, we were planning our wedding that was 2 years from then. SO it just depends on what point of the relationship I'm at.
08/18/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Depends...I know I want to spend the rest of my life with my current partner, so we sorta hint at things to come.
08/18/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We've been married 23 years - the rest of our lives - how ever long it takes.
08/18/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
we plan to be together for the rest of our lives, so we say things that refer to our future
08/18/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
It changes. Sometimes we talk about where we will be in a year, and sometimes it's 6 months. Our plans change.
08/18/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Usually a week or a month at the most.
08/18/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
We talk about spending the rest of our lives together.
08/18/2012
Contributor: amberf83 amberf83
ive been married for 9 years this september mine is 1 years plus
08/18/2012
Contributor: TiffyPixie TiffyPixie
We're in it for life.
08/18/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Just curious how far into the future others discuss with their partner. My girlfriend and of (of 1.5 years) have discussed 5 years into the future.
We been talking about buying a condo next week. That's as far as we went.
08/18/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
We've already discussed death, so we go pretty far.
08/18/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Everything from beginning to end and in between
08/18/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
We're in it for the long haul.
08/19/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
We're quite casual right now, so we don't discuss too far into the future.

There are times that we'll comment to one another about how we need to be open to relocating in the future -- which we both are. But... beyond the next visit? We don't plan.
08/19/2012
Contributor: bettle590 bettle590
The only reason I chose 10 years plus is because I'm really serious about not wanting children. If we have the same views on that, though, then that's as far into the future I need to know about.
08/19/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
After 16 years of marriage.....we have covered haunting each other in 100 years, lol!!! Joking, but we have pretty much covered until one of us dies. Not a happy topic, but a very necessary one.
08/19/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
We've talked about wanting children together, but don't have a time frame in mind. We don't really know how long we'll be together (who does?) so it's sort of a take it as it comes and hope for the best situation. 18 months together, for reference.
08/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
We talked about it right away in the beginning just causally like to friends would talk. You have to make sure you guys will be on the same page before taking it too far.
08/19/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Already been with him over 1/2 my life, we pretty much have everything layed out for the future and beyond.
08/19/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Just curious how far into the future others discuss with their partner. My girlfriend and of (of 1.5 years) have discussed 5 years into the future.
Life is short, got to live it up while you can!
08/19/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
We've talked about all of our lives
08/19/2012
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I'm not really sure what to pick. We don't really talk much about the future aside from buying a house, which is in the near future. We do talk about wanting to buy certain cars or work for certain companies. Other than that, we just take it day by day.
08/20/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
We're talking mostly about 2 years out, since there's too many life changes in that period to really plan long term
08/20/2012
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
We've talked about our wholes lives.
08/21/2012
Contributor: sextoygeek sextoygeek
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Just curious how far into the future others discuss with their partner. My girlfriend and of (of 1.5 years) have discussed 5 years into the future.
It depends on how long the relationship has been going on. I'm single right now, but I try to play ahead a few weeks to a month.
08/21/2012
Contributor: Shadowed Shadowed
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months; we're committed to one another and we live together. We talk about a year to a year and a half in the future.
08/22/2012
Contributor: Willowe Willowe
Depends on how long I've been with my partner. If it's really serious, then at least a year. If things are still new, only a few weeks to a few months ahead.

When I was 19 I had a girlfriend launch into this huge discussion not even a week after we got together about her plans to get married and have kids ASAP. Needless to say, we didn't last very long, so I try not to do that to other people.
08/22/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
we are getting married next month so we are talking long term
08/22/2012