No, it's totally fine to rant.
My boyfriend has unbearable friends at times.
I really really can't stand to be around them, but being a good girlfriend I tried.

His friends, call them Sam and Sue.. are ridiculously unclean and mopey.
Sue alway flirts with my boyfriend even though her damn husband is right there and even suggested a threesome with them both while I was sleeping in the other room.

Sue acts as if I'm some child and that my boyfriend has this dirty past that I'm unaware of. This couple has caused several fights between my boyfriend and I.

He admits their downfalls and wrongdoings, I guess he doesn't care enough.
Sam always suggests that my boyfriend isn't committed enough and in a long distance relationship of three years, who wants to hear that?

Through it out, I play it super sweet and nice. I'm always listening to music and perky and it pisses off Sue to no end. I always offer to cook for them and clean everything. It's my method and I'm sticking to it! less

Any SNL fans? Kristen Wiig and Jason Sudeikis played this horrible couple who always chewed gum and spoke in monotone voice constantly asking each other "What? The what? The what? The what?" Really just the most obnoxious, self-absorbed losers you could imagine. Of course, since it's on TV, it's hilarious. Not so much so when that couple really exists and they happen to be my man's best friends.

I'll call them Jake and Jane. They live together, yet constantly break up. Jane will routinely contact my boyfriend for pot when she is out. Jake calls my guy everyday (EVERY. DAY.) and chats about NOTHING for like 2 hours. My boyfriend will literally put the phone down, walk away, then come back and begin to play video games, and Jake will still be prattling on about bullshit. He can't hold down a job for more than 2 weeks, he lives with his parents, he's one of those people who will start drama on Facebook, etc. He's like Snooki.

The final straw, the moment when I realized I could no longer continue to bullshit and fake a smile and casual friendship with this man was when my boyfriend left for China. He came down to visit me and we got a hotel room. Jake called him constantly and complained that they were supposed to hang out that weekend, and my guy had bailed on him. They had hung out the previous 2 weekends and had said their goodbyes. I was dumbfounded by this childish behavior from a 27 year old man. The day after my guy left for China, Jake posted a Facebook status saying "You have no idea what it's like to have to say goodbye to your best friend of 23 years as he goes to another country for 10 months." So I responded "Try being his girlfriend for almost 3 years and saying goodbye. You get to see him everyday. Get over it." His response?

"I know him better than you and it's not like you see him anyway. I miss him more than you do."

Really?

Really.

Anyone out there feel my pain? Was I wrong to be offended by this comment? How do I deal with the fact that I hate this loser but love my boyfriend? I don't EVER want to tell my guy to lose him, or pick one of us (that is immature and childish, and cruel to boot) but...this cat is crazy. His girlfriend, I can handle. Or ignore. Whatever.

Sorry. Just had to rant less

Any SNL fans? Kristen Wiig and Jason Sudeikis played this horrible couple who always chewed gum and spoke in monotone voice constantly asking each other "What? The what? The what? The what?" Really just the most obnoxious, self-absorbed losers you could imagine. Of course, since it's on TV, it's hilarious. Not so much so when that couple really exists and they happen to be my man's best friends.

I'll call them Jake and Jane. They live together, yet constantly break up. Jane will routinely contact my boyfriend for pot when she is out. Jake calls my guy everyday (EVERY. DAY.) and chats about NOTHING for like 2 hours. My boyfriend will literally put the phone down, walk away, then come back and begin to play video games, and Jake will still be prattling on about bullshit. He can't hold down a job for more than 2 weeks, he lives with his parents, he's one of those people who will start drama on Facebook, etc. He's like Snooki.

The final straw, the moment when I realized I could no longer continue to bullshit and fake a smile and casual friendship with this man was when my boyfriend left for China. He came down to visit me and we got a hotel room. Jake called him constantly and complained that they were supposed to hang out that weekend, and my guy had bailed on him. They had hung out the previous 2 weekends and had said their goodbyes. I was dumbfounded by this childish behavior from a 27 year old man. The day after my guy left for China, Jake posted a Facebook status saying "You have no idea what it's like to have to say goodbye to your best friend of 23 years as he goes to another country for 10 months." So I responded "Try being his girlfriend for almost 3 years and saying goodbye. You get to see him everyday. Get over it." His response?

"I know him better than you and it's not like you see him anyway. I miss him more than you do."

Really?

Really.

Anyone out there feel my pain? Was I wrong to be offended by this comment? How do I deal with the fact that I hate this loser but love my boyfriend? I don't EVER want to tell my guy to lose him, or pick one of us (that is immature and childish, and cruel to boot) but...this cat is crazy. His girlfriend, I can handle. Or ignore. Whatever.

Sorry. Just had to rant less

No, it's totally fine to rant.
My boyfriend has unbearable friends at times.
I really really can't stand to be around them, but being a good girlfriend I tried.

His friends, call them Sam and Sue.. are ridiculously unclean and mopey.
Sue alway flirts with my boyfriend even though her damn husband is right there and even suggested a threesome with them both while I was sleeping in the other room.

Sue acts as if I'm some child and that my boyfriend has this dirty past that I'm unaware of. This couple has caused several fights between my boyfriend and I.

He admits their downfalls and wrongdoings, I guess he doesn't care enough.
Sam always suggests that my boyfriend isn't committed enough and in a long distance relationship of three years, who wants to hear that?

Through it out, I play it super sweet and nice. I'm always listening to music and perky and it pisses off Sue to no end. I always offer to cook for them and clean everything. It's my method and I'm sticking to it! less

These two are behaving in Classic Personality Disordered fashion. WHY does your bf put up with it? I hate to cut people out of my life, but at the first hint of Borderline or Manipulative behavior, or if someone tries to get into my business, I've learned over the years that these people do not grow up. I find a graceful way out of the relationship.

These people can't be "won over." DON'T let them "cause a fight." You are playing into their Drama if you do this stuff. Don't take what they say as Fight Fodder. It is what they want. DO NOT approach your bf with something they said he did or said, chances are it's an exaggeration. Do approach your bf, using "I" messages to let him know the relationship with these people is one sided and makes you feel bad. Some guys are too sentimental to "let go" of old friends, but when they make trouble in these men's love lives, sometimes some adult conversation with your bf (not with these people, it will do NO good) would help. less