Does it matter to you what a person does on the first date? Or do you accept their behavior as the lowest point/nervousness and have higher expectations the next time around?
                    
                    
                    Do first impressions make a difference?
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                        Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't say it would affect too much what kind of relationship (friend wise, not actual romance wise) I'd have with them in the future. Sometimes friends are brought on your path in less than the most perfect ways.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            deltalima
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Does it matter to you what a person does on the first date? Or do you accept their behavior as the lowest point/nervousness and have higher expectations the next time around?
                                        
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                        That is true. I think it doesn't matter too much but I definitely remember.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            K101
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't
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                                                    Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't say it would affect too much what kind of relationship (friend wise, not actual romance wise) I'd have with them in the future. Sometimes friends are brought on your path in less than the most perfect ways.
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                                        11/04/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        very well said!
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            K101
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't
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                                                    Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't say it would affect too much what kind of relationship (friend wise, not actual romance wise) I'd have with them in the future. Sometimes friends are brought on your path in less than the most perfect ways.
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                        depends on the circumstance of what was the quirk really first impressions sometimes are lasting but noty always  obsolite
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            deltalima
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Does it matter to you what a person does on the first date? Or do you accept their behavior as the lowest point/nervousness and have higher expectations the next time around?
                                        
                                    11/18/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I think they do, that's the first time you see the person/interact with them, if you think they're a snobby brat first time you meet what are the chances you'll want to meet again? So to me first impressions are a make it or break it thing
                        
                        
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                        Yea, it definitely sets the tone. That said, I tend to be pretty relaxed about mistakes, it's being a brat that'd really turn me away
                        
                        
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                        Of course it does. People see with their eyes first. Nothing wrong about it, just a fact of life.
                        
                        
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                        yes they always have. Whether you are meeting someone for the first time, going on a job interview etc. First impressions are the lasting impressions.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            deltalima
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Does it matter to you what a person does on the first date? Or do you accept their behavior as the lowest point/nervousness and have higher expectations the next time around?
                                        
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                        I agree.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            K101
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't
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                                                    Well, I wouldn't say that first impressions will typically "make or break" for me, but they do leave me with.. .well, impressions! Lol. It depends though. Unless the first impression of a person was extremely unpleasant, I wouldn't say it would affect too much what kind of relationship (friend wise, not actual romance wise) I'd have with them in the future. Sometimes friends are brought on your path in less than the most perfect ways.
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                                        12/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Depends. It's usually easy to tell whether someone is nervous or a jerk. Nervousness wouldn't rule anything out and can kind of be cute. Troll-esque types, not a chance.
                        
                        
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                        it does matter but if he was just nervous and clumsy i could look past it and give him another chance
                        
                        
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                        It does
                        
                        
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                        My thoughts exactly.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Claire-Bear
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Depends. It's usually easy to tell whether someone is nervous or a jerk. Nervousness wouldn't rule anything out and can kind of be cute. Troll-esque types, not a chance.
                                        
                                    12/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        first impressions are usually lasting
                        
                        
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