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Contributor: Sir Sir
This is not really sex related, though.

We're sort of stuck with things - we're in a long distance relationship, and wondering about things that we can do TOGETHER, other than sex and talking about worldly things. We talk about a lot, and that's great, but we never really do anything together other than watch movies occasionally while on the phone with each other.

Mind you, when we're together and visit one another, we're perfectly fine in that department. We go on dates, do things with each other like crafts, try out different foods or different restaurants, etc.

All suggestions appreciated! Thank you!
11/06/2010
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Sir
This is not really sex related, though.

We're sort of stuck with things - we're in a long distance relationship, and wondering about things that we can do TOGETHER, other than sex and talking about worldly things. We talk about a lot, ... more
Do you have skype? We use skype in the room in the front room so it feels like Arch is here with us. We can all watch tv, talk and so on. You could do the same things you would do with each other, like having dinner and crafting, on skype as well! We do that all the time, he will order pizza or chinese and we'll do the same and then have dinner together. It sucks but it eases the time we are apart.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Do you have skype? We use skype in the room in the front room so it feels like Arch is here with us. We can all watch tv, talk and so on. You could do the same things you would do with each other, like having dinner and crafting, on skype as well! We ... more
Yeah, we get on Skype pretty often. She actually mentioned that she feels that we don't get on enough, so we're going to try to more often. But that's a good idea, thank you very much.
11/07/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Sir
This is not really sex related, though.

We're sort of stuck with things - we're in a long distance relationship, and wondering about things that we can do TOGETHER, other than sex and talking about worldly things. We talk about a lot, ... more
This response is kind of sex related. But if I were in a long distance relationship, I would make a habit of sending each other sex toys. It gives you a way to surprise each other, and also provides more excitement when you are together, as you will have new toys to play with together.

Other than that, there is always reading books together, trying new foods, like email each other recipes so that you can cook and eat the same things for dinner once in a while. Maybe write each other stuff now and again, and mail it snail mail. Poems, letters, even post its would be fun.... Do crafts together over skype, come up with something to make and you can both buy some glue and glitter and feathers and pasta and shit and see what you can come up with. I imagine that one would be good for a few laughs.
11/08/2010