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Making moves...after how many dates?

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Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
How many dates should you have before you start wondering why s/he isn't making a move?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
1-3
El-Jaro , Geogeo , Terri69 , ChickenFeathers , deltalima , Rawr4483 , Ilovelingerie , Dixiemomma , BlooJay , lilly555 , gsfanatic
11
3-5
Kitka
1
5-8
fromazoo , LaSchwartz , hall5885 , MissCandyland , thisisadeletedaccount , Mrs.Intensity , ghalik , Envy , LAndJ
9
Total votes: 21 (21 voters)
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Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
I'd say 1-3, but always take into account that they could just be shy or nervous.
06/26/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
How many dates should you have before you start wondering why s/he isn't making a move?
More than 3 dates and I'd feel like I'm wasting my time.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
How many dates should you have before you start wondering why s/he isn't making a move?
It depends on what "type" of move you are referring to.


If sex. Then I would wonder after around 3 dates.

But then again me and my man had sex AFTER our first date, though we had been together a couple months(we didn'y see eachother a lot do to long-distance)
07/02/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
In the beginning, I like to take things slow. It builds up anticipation.
07/02/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
It really depends on what you want to get out of your dates, what age you both are, and your personalities. I haven't dated enough to have a good estimate for you here - I've been in relationships where it took ages for any "moves" to be made, and others where it happened almost immediately.
07/04/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Intensity Mrs.Intensity
No need to jump into bed too soon... I'd rather wait and make sure I want to go there with the person.
07/16/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Depends on both of you, after 1-3 I'd discuss it if it seems your partner is moving too slowly
07/17/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I wouldn't start really wondering until after 5, not that I wouldn't be hoping before that.
07/17/2012