this is fresh off an argument with my girlfriend in where she says female masturbation is alot weirder then male because of all the juices, i disagree, i think its all the same, what do you guys think?
Male masturbation vs. female masturbation: which is less "weird"?
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juices
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Male vs. Female Masturbation
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both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
05/18/2011
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Neither. We were all created as sexual beings, and the "juices" are there to help us enjoy it.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
05/19/2011
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All the same.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
05/19/2011
Definitely all the same.
05/19/2011
Another all the same vote here.
05/19/2011
they are the same, neither is weird.
05/19/2011
I don't see that either is weird.
05/19/2011
Neither is weird to me
05/19/2011
the same
05/19/2011
I don't think it's weird either way.
05/19/2011
Weirder? Neither. Now if you'd asked which is messier...
05/21/2011
Hmmm... I think its more accepted that men masterbate than women. Personally, Id rather have sex than masterbate.
05/21/2011
I don't find either to be weird so I'm with you: all the same.
05/21/2011
To say female masturbation is "weirder" than male masturbation is a weird word choice.
Both male and female masturbation produce bodily fluids. Whether the male produces more or the female produces more depends very much upon the individuals in question. My husband definitely produces more bodily fluid upon ejaculation, so his masturbation is definitely messier than mine because I am not a squirter. Other than cleaning my toys, I do not require a towel post-masturbation as my husband does. But I wouldn't say his masturbation is any "weirder" than mine.
I just don't see how a necessary physiological function (i.e., release of bodily fluids) makes masturbation "weird" though.
Both male and female masturbation produce bodily fluids. Whether the male produces more or the female produces more depends very much upon the individuals in question. My husband definitely produces more bodily fluid upon ejaculation, so his masturbation is definitely messier than mine because I am not a squirter. Other than cleaning my toys, I do not require a towel post-masturbation as my husband does. But I wouldn't say his masturbation is any "weirder" than mine.
I just don't see how a necessary physiological function (i.e., release of bodily fluids) makes masturbation "weird" though.
05/21/2011
It's all the same; I think female masturbation would only seem "weirder" because society generally doesn't condone it.
05/21/2011
It's all the same. Everybody does it.. It's not weird in fact, It's healthy.. Everyone should.
06/10/2011
Because of all the "juices?" Like female ejaculation or come? I don't see what makes that weird. I really don't find either to be weird.
06/10/2011
All the same to me
06/10/2011
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It's the same, no different.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
06/11/2011
all the same
06/12/2011
not weird at all
06/12/2011
I find it to be equal. everybody has juices and well its normal so its not wierd at all.
06/12/2011
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neither its sexy either way
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
06/18/2011
We're all the same. I hate that your gf finds it weird.
11/05/2011
Neither is weird. Both are normal, healthy expressions of sexual energy. And juices are hot!
11/05/2011
The same!
11/05/2011
One and the same.
Though, in regards to which type of masturbation is more weird, I think male. For females (at least those who need only clitoral stimulation) can stick a bullet between their legs and no one would notice. For a man, at least from what I've experienced, masturbation is a lot more physical
Though, in regards to which type of masturbation is more weird, I think male. For females (at least those who need only clitoral stimulation) can stick a bullet between their legs and no one would notice. For a man, at least from what I've experienced, masturbation is a lot more physical
11/09/2011
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Neither are weirder. In fact, I enjoy seeing my partner masturbate. Sometimes we'll watch each other.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
11/12/2011
The only thing I find weird is your question. I don't really understand what you mean really. Hmm.
11/12/2011
Neither method is 'weird'. You seem weird to me for needing to ask that question. O_o We all produce lubrication during sexual arousal,it's a normal thing.
11/12/2011
I agree with Sinfully. The only weird thing is the question. Juices are juices, masturbation is masturbation. It's the same thing, there shouldn't be a double standard there.
11/12/2011
Neither is weird...
11/13/2011
I don't think either is "wierd"... <//<"
11/13/2011
Both are usually (but not always) people stimulating erectile tissue. They're just different sizes and shapes.
And both can be "messy" and require some form of prep / cleanup.
I do understand how it can feel "weird" to touch something that feels "messy", though, and if she doesn't really do it or has never tried to be okay with it, it might feel "gross" to her. I think it's a barrier some people have to overcome, having been told that sex and bodily fluids in general are "weird" and "gross".
And both can be "messy" and require some form of prep / cleanup.
I do understand how it can feel "weird" to touch something that feels "messy", though, and if she doesn't really do it or has never tried to be okay with it, it might feel "gross" to her. I think it's a barrier some people have to overcome, having been told that sex and bodily fluids in general are "weird" and "gross".
11/29/2011
Nothing at all weird for either! It's natural and exciting!
11/29/2011
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"Weird" is not the word. Sex & candy smell the same especially when mixed. But a womans cream's a dream to sniff, fine confection white or thin. Tastes GREAT! Mmmyea! Food of the God's.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
01/04/2012
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Ditto.
Originally posted by
BuckeyeGal04
Nothing at all weird for either! It's natural and exciting!
01/05/2012
Nothing weird about anyone making some juice, I say.
01/07/2012
From a third person perspective, why was there even an argument? There's nothing weird about masturbation, or any of the effects related to it. If you have to disagree on something, how about cost-effective methods for preventing malaria?
01/20/2012
I say that its natural for both male and female to masturbate there is nothing weird about it.
02/24/2012
Neither, both happen and it's equally awkward when your roommate walks in.
02/25/2012
Neither is weird.
02/25/2012
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i guess id say women only due to the fact that many people dont understand the "squirt"
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
02/25/2012
neither
02/28/2012
Neither is weird. Orgasms for all!
03/11/2012
I never thought of either male or female masturbation as being weird.
03/12/2012
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This. O.o
Originally posted by
loveshocks
I never thought of either male or female masturbation as being weird.
03/12/2012
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It's not weird. The word juices grosses me out though.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
03/12/2012
Neither. I consider masturbation to be natural for both male and females.
03/18/2012
Ah, so good to see so many people saying neither are weird! I agree, of course.
03/18/2012
I think neither is weird.
03/19/2012
All the same really. Only differences is the way in which it is done.
03/20/2012
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I wasn't aware that either acts were weird.....?
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
03/20/2012
neither? both seem like very natural things to me..... plus.. orgasms are good for you
03/20/2012
Masturbation isn't weird. I think a lot more women are more inhibited about masturbation than men are, but that's society and upbringing. Male and female masturbation are both normal and natural. The "mess" factor depends very much upon the individuals and what kind of masturbation they're engaging in. I've known men that have A LOT of precum that seeps during sex and masturbation that can get to the point of being messy, while others have none or very little of this, plus the final ejaculation, which quantity depends greatly upon the individual. Some women barely get wet during masturbation, some soak the sheets, some are "squirters" while some are gushers, and some produce little fluid at all. Some masturbators for men provide a "catch" for the fluids which can then be cleaned later. Some women produce a lot more fluid during toy assisted masturbation, and some produce much more when vaginal, a-spot and/or g-spot stimulation is involved. But neither is weird.
Now...being a lesbian, male masturbation isn't really something I appreciate. Wouldn't, say, wanna watch a guy jack off. Eww, penises and scrotums and semen, oh my. Yuck. Not that they're "weird", per se, plenty of people like that sort of thing, luckily for guys. But female masturbation is beautiful and incredibly sexy to me. So, I guess it depends on what you like and are attracted to, but I don't think it's fair to say that either is weird.
Now...being a lesbian, male masturbation isn't really something I appreciate. Wouldn't, say, wanna watch a guy jack off. Eww, penises and scrotums and semen, oh my. Yuck. Not that they're "weird", per se, plenty of people like that sort of thing, luckily for guys. But female masturbation is beautiful and incredibly sexy to me. So, I guess it depends on what you like and are attracted to, but I don't think it's fair to say that either is weird.
04/02/2012
I don't find it gross or weird. It's just another great way to kill time or release some tension.
04/02/2012
I don't find it gross or weird.
04/11/2012
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Both kind of strange, if you really think about it. FUN, but strange!!!
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
07/13/2012
it's all a social construct. there is no right answer.
08/05/2012
Neither is weird. It is completely normal and natural.
08/21/2012
its not weird and i love the juices wish i had a girlfriend to swallow all her juices
08/21/2012
Neither, both are normal and healthy
08/21/2012
Oh, for the love of...masturbation isn't "weird." It's natural, it's healthy and everyone should do it. As for a woman's "juices," how does that make female masturbation weird? Would it be better to be dry as a bone in between your legs? We get wet when we are aroused--that's a how our bodies work. Your friend has weird ideas about masturbation, honestly...
08/31/2012
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Agreed, there isn't anything "weird" about masturbation specifically. When you really think about it, people are pretty "weird" in general!
Originally posted by
newfoundlust
Neither. We were all created as sexual beings, and the "juices" are there to help us enjoy it.
03/06/2013
Neither of them seem weird.
03/14/2013
?? Weird? That's such a strange question... I can't think of why stimulating a specific configuration of nerves would be weirder than stimulating the other, it's all the same stuff in different places, how can that be weird? This seems nearly sexist, I just don't see how stimulating ANY genitalia could be "weirder" than any other.
03/14/2013
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Never really thought of it as weird.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
both males and females have juices, but which is considered weirder?
03/14/2013
i dont think either is weird
04/18/2013
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which one is weirder?
05/18/2011
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See my post on the other topic.
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
which one is weirder?
05/19/2011
:| hm.
05/19/2011
I hate saying masturbation is weird, because it isn't. But if I HAD to choose which sex makes masturbation weirder, I would pick males. I mean they make messes! We get our toys/hands wet, but they actuall shoot stuff out places.
Nonetheless, I find masturbation to be normal for either sex. Nothing to be ashamed of.
Nonetheless, I find masturbation to be normal for either sex. Nothing to be ashamed of.
05/19/2011
I don't think masturbation is weird for anyone.
05/19/2011
um...why is it wierd?
06/11/2011
I don't think it's weird.
06/12/2011
I don't think it's weird for either sex.
11/05/2011
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Neither... we're all human
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
which one is weirder?
11/09/2011
Male masturbation is more acceptable in our culture.
Biologically, both are completely normal and healthy.
Biologically, both are completely normal and healthy.
11/12/2011
I agree with chicken12. The only thing that makes it seem weird is society's cultural ideas. Neither's weirder than the other, and I think it's weird to think it's weird. lol
11/12/2011
Neither is what I'd call "weird." Maybe "awesome" or "spectacular," but not "weird."
01/07/2012
i don't find either of them weird
01/18/2012
i don't think so
01/27/2012
Both are normal.
02/24/2012
neither
02/24/2012
both are ftw
02/25/2012
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buth r fun for theuir perpous
Originally posted by
Pablo F Lleras
which one is weirder?
02/25/2012
icyqueen
Neither!
03/18/2012
neither
03/19/2012
Again neither is weird. Both are absolutely normal
03/20/2012
Neither are weird.
04/02/2012
Female is made taboo and "weird" by our society.
08/05/2012
Neither
08/05/2012
Masturbation isn't weird. Period.
08/23/2012
Neither.
09/08/2012
Male masturbation seems to be more socially accepted (and is talked about more), but neither is weird.
04/25/2013
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