Okay, so I started dating this guy. He is probably one of the most attractive guys that I have been with. He is so kindhearted it is ridiculous. I've also never met a guy that is as patient with me as he is either. Every aspect of this relationship is wonderful. But..... In the bedroom it lacks alot. He hasn't even touched a woman in like 2 years before I came along. How do I get him to  have a little fun with more foreplay before going at it? When there is time made for foreplay, get him to spend more time in certain areas? Make him get a little rough? I don't want to be rude or offensive. And, I certainly don't want to ruin what we have by making him uncomfortable. Help!!!!
                    
                    
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                        To quote Dan Savage, "use your words"; just tell him that you want this fun to last longer and that means more foreplay etc. As a versatile bi guy who has had more than a few partners, I can tell you that I far prefer to be told what feels better than to find out later that what I was doing just didn't do it for him or her.
                        
                        
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                        Ditto.
                        
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                                            RonLee
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    To quote Dan Savage, "use your words"; just tell him that you want this fun to last longer and that means more foreplay etc. As a versatile bi guy who has had more than a few partners, I can tell you that I far prefer to be told what feels
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                                                    To quote Dan Savage, "use your words"; just tell him that you want this fun to last longer and that means more foreplay etc. As a versatile bi guy who has had more than a few partners, I can tell you that I far prefer to be told what feels better than to find out later that what I was doing just didn't do it for him or her.
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                        nice post
                        
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                                            TheToyGuy
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Ditto.
                                        
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