Do you do it?
Sending nudes before you even start dating
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Cat E.
No, I'd never do that.
10/04/2012
No, that is a terrible idea
10/04/2012
Bad idea on so many levels!
10/04/2012
I've done it, but only if it is requested or desired and it worked fine. I wouldn't with just anyone though. Usually its if I wanted a FWB.
10/04/2012
I've never done it. When I was dating, most people didn't have cell phones and cell phones didn't have cameras. I NEVER took a naked picture of myself and gave it to a guy, even if I was having sex with him. (Those men, with the exception of my husband, are going to have to rely on the persistence of memory of my shapely fine, teenage and early 20s, self. )
In fact, my husband only has TWO even risque pictures of me. And he only took those this summer before he went on a trip to help out on an Indian Rez, where we would be separated for more than a week. It's "top only" and he left it in his camera.
Before dating someone? Never. While dating someone? I'd have to really know them well and trust them. It took my husband more than 20 years to get a pic.
If I was still dating (heaven forbid) I would not give a nude pic to a guy. One second of your time, and your naked self could be on the internet and/or in his buddies' collections for eternity. No thanks. I don't want that kind of attention.
In fact, my husband only has TWO even risque pictures of me. And he only took those this summer before he went on a trip to help out on an Indian Rez, where we would be separated for more than a week. It's "top only" and he left it in his camera.
Before dating someone? Never. While dating someone? I'd have to really know them well and trust them. It took my husband more than 20 years to get a pic.
If I was still dating (heaven forbid) I would not give a nude pic to a guy. One second of your time, and your naked self could be on the internet and/or in his buddies' collections for eternity. No thanks. I don't want that kind of attention.
10/04/2012
Nope. It is one thing for a guy to have a mental pic having seen me naked, but quite another for him to have an ACTUAL pic of me. You have to invest the time in the relationship to get a gift like that.
10/04/2012
I have but we were originally just going to meet for sex but we ended up dating afterwards.
10/04/2012
Never even occurred to me to do such a thing! I would never send a nude photo of myself to a stranger - I won't take a nude photo, period. As P'Gell said, once it's out there it's out there for good. No thanks!
10/04/2012
I don't want to scare them off before we meet.
10/04/2012
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I think it's too risky.
Originally posted by
JessieDawg
Do you do it?
10/04/2012
He's gotta work for it! Besides, why spoil the first time we get to be together? Leaving things up to the imagination is much more fun.
10/04/2012
nothing left for the imagination!
10/04/2012
I have but only once, and he's stuck with me now
10/05/2012
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Never have and never ever would. We'd have to be a lot further into the relationship than just dating before I'd expose my self in such a way.
Originally posted by
JessieDawg
Do you do it?
10/05/2012
I sent a pic to my partner before we actually met but we were already "dating" kinda? I don't know haha. I've never done it other than that though.
10/05/2012
Nope but I been with my Husband 10 years and he has dirty pics and I made him a video of just Me, Myself and I
10/05/2012
Never. I had a friend who sent pictures to an online friend of her in cosplay, they weren't even sexy or fetish wear or anything of that nature, and someone found them plastered all over a porn site.
10/05/2012
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I don't date so yeah I've sent nudes without dating someone but never with my face
Originally posted by
JessieDawg
Do you do it?
10/05/2012
It would have to be one heck of a serious relationship before I would even consider it.
10/05/2012
Yeah I have
10/05/2012
I have not and would not do that
10/05/2012
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