It's only happened once. The first time he put a sex toy in my hand. (This was years ago) He didn't say anything, except, "I have something for you." I was stressed because it was Christmas season and we have Christmas, and I wasn't in the mood. He puts this......thing (it was a Sil-A-Gel realistic vibrator) in my hand, and I screamed and threw it at him! LOL!
I was surprised, we had never used sex toys before (this was a long time ago) and I didn't expect it.
I came around, obviously. But, it did ruin sex for us that night.
Tell a girl if you're going to spring a big, pink, vibrating PVC dick on her!