Just wanting other opinions on what you think about one person in a relationship who has live porn interraction while in a committed relationship. Is this okay or is something else going on here? Thoughts?
Thoughts on 'live porn interraction" while in a relationship?
CougarGirl
03/03/2010
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"live porn interaction" in what way?
03/03/2010
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I am not at all clear on what you mean by live porn interaction. Could you describe this situation a bit more?
Originally posted by
CougarGirl
Just wanting other opinions on what you think about one person in a relationship who has live porn interraction while in a committed relationship. Is this okay or is something else going on here? Thoughts?
03/04/2010
Do you perhaps mean Webcamming in a pay for sex site?
03/04/2010
I see the word "live" and think of my significant other interacting with someone else personally, whether it be via physical contact, a phone call, webcam session, etc. Whichever, the answer would be a definite no. I don't care if my husband watches porn, but interacting with another person on a 1-on-1 basis? That is crossing a big line right there.
03/04/2010
CougarGirl1
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Live porn sites where you tell people what to do.
Originally posted by
Heather
"live porn interaction" in what way?
03/05/2010
CougarGirl1
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"Live" meaning that you tell other couples what to do and you watch. Apparently there is some form of communication by telling them what to do. I just don't know if there is any "written" responses from the other people.
Originally posted by
Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
I see the word "live" and think of my significant other interacting with someone else personally, whether it be via physical contact, a phone call, webcam session, etc. Whichever, the answer would be a definite no. I don't care if my
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I see the word "live" and think of my significant other interacting with someone else personally, whether it be via physical contact, a phone call, webcam session, etc. Whichever, the answer would be a definite no. I don't care if my husband watches porn, but interacting with another person on a 1-on-1 basis? That is crossing a big line right there.
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03/05/2010
I dont think there's anything wrong with it. Camgirl/guy porn is still porn. Of course, its not unusual for some guys to attempt to foster a relationship with the women as in any other kind of online dating but for the most part the girls are just stringing them along. For example I've had a camgirl confess her love to me before, even though I didn't know her well at all. It's usually all in fun for them and the guys are just hopelessly barking up the wrong tree.
However... most guys see it as just porn. Not some kind of relationship. It's something I'd encourage doing together with your partner actually.. its pretty fun.
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Oh and yes there is written communication. they usually have a chatroom where the model and the viewers can post wherein they discuss what the model is doing and tell them what to do. That or the model has a microphone and responds that way.
However... most guys see it as just porn. Not some kind of relationship. It's something I'd encourage doing together with your partner actually.. its pretty fun.
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Oh and yes there is written communication. they usually have a chatroom where the model and the viewers can post wherein they discuss what the model is doing and tell them what to do. That or the model has a microphone and responds that way.
03/05/2010
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You know, that's an interesting question. I think I understand what you mean, and I wonder if it is okay. To some it may be, and to others not. What are your opinions on it, most importantly. That's what I wonder. My husband has admitted to doing it, as I have admitted to doing it, and we only do when we're far apart and need some release. Together, we've never really done it. It depends, I suppose, for different couples. and individuals.
Originally posted by
CougarGirl
Just wanting other opinions on what you think about one person in a relationship who has live porn interraction while in a committed relationship. Is this okay or is something else going on here? Thoughts?
08/12/2010
Porn is fine because it's one way. Your partner is watching it and there is no interaction. Cam sites and the like are NOT okay, nor is cyber sex. At least not in my book. My guy and I have discussed this thoroughly before and we feel the same way about these things. Camming with someone online is still sex, tecnically. It involves two willing adults performing sexual acts for the gratification of the other.
08/13/2010
I don't think I'd care about cam site stuff if the significant other worked for one. I also wouldn't care about cyber sex, if it were something again, someone was paying for. If it was real sex, I would say no. But again, the others are just conditions based on the fact that it would have to be his or her job.
08/14/2010
It doesn't bother me unless I find that my partner has made a personal connection witht he actress/model and not informed me before hand....or at all. As long as I know it's going on and the scope of WHAT is going on I don't mind.
08/14/2010
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