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Anthia
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a rough time. No relationship is worth losing your mind for. I can relate to you in many levels as my partner and I have started in a toxic cycle, but we both keep each other in check by going to
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I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a rough time. No relationship is worth losing your mind for. I can relate to you in many levels as my partner and I have started in a toxic cycle, but we both keep each other in check by going to therapy and commit to working at being better people to each other. If there is no growth within the next 2 to 3 months. Leave! There's not enough time in this world to settle on partners that make you feel inferior. I hope you make better amends with your friends and loved ones. I'm sure they miss you. Please, never stay stuck and if you are adamant about staying with your spouse, then make sure you guys are willing to both work on being healthier people. Otherwise, just leave if no work is being put into improving the relationship.
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Sorry for delay response I agree life is too short it took me awhile to get out of it but I finally did last night he was controlling abusive emotionally and physically and didn't want me to have a life besides him. For a while I felt like Noone would want me and he had it in my head everyone talked bad of me and I realized it was only to get me where he wanted.