This could end up being such a long list.

Right now my friend started to see this guy she met online. She's seen him three times so far for no more than a few hours. Suddenly he posts on his facebook that she's his girlfriend and he's trying to get her to making living decisions with him, be a part of his custody battle with his ex, and be a mother to his children... I say he's a drama-causing nutcase. Not a good sign three dates in when she doesn't want to know anything heavy yet. TOO MUCH, TOO FAST.

One thing of my own that I experienced in a past first date was a guy that freaked out at normal conversation. We were at a book store and looking at pictures of unique and cool tattoos. He says something like, "I'm thinking of getting a tattoo." I say, "Cool, me too. What do you think you're gonna get?" Well he then freaked out an acted like a snobby asshole and said, "I think that's a very personal question and I don't want to answer." It's called making small talk and getting to know each other. And you brought it up, dude! I stayed long enough to be polite and ran my ass out of there.

When everything they say is negative, I know the relationship would just stress me out.