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Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Within 10 minutes... we were so hot we did it right then and there.
1  (1%)
Within an hour... instant chemistry.
20  (24%)
Within 3 hours... movie/dinner... and then hard at it. :)
11  (13%)
On the 1st date... (more than 3 hours into the date).
10  (12%)
On the 2nd date... a few days after meeting.
7  (8%)
A week or more...
11  (13%)
A month or more.. I like to get to know someone before I jump into a sexual relationship.
24  (29%)
Total votes: 84
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02/13/2011
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Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
It takes work to get in this pants. I need the mental fire before everything else lights up to go there.
02/13/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
If you mean meeting in person then after a few hours, but I'd talked to him on the internet for over a year before that.
Generally speaking it's always been about a week or more. I make them work for it
02/13/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
This past Friday (2/11) ... we had connected very well online, so we met. Within a few hours of the initial nervousness, dinner, and lots of talk ... yeah. This is the only time it's ever happened. We both didn't intend for it to go that far for the first date but ... everything just naturally fell into place.

And we consider ourselves a couple now. We took down our dating site profiles yesterday.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I wait at least a couple of months, just to be sure.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
In my entire life, less than an hour. I had a rebellious phase that included hot sex with just about everyone and anyone who wanted it.

But, realistically? I usually go for whenever it feels comfortable, which is most often after a week or two, unless I've known the person for a long time. When my SO and I met offline, it was within an hour or two, but we had been together for like six months at that point.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
This past Friday (2/11) ... we had connected very well online, so we met. Within a few hours of the initial nervousness, dinner, and lots of talk ... yeah. This is the only time it's ever happened. We both didn't intend for it to go that far ... more
aww. congrats Chili!

when i was single, it happened, a couple times. dinner or drinks and a few hours later in the sack.
02/13/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
The first guy that I had sex with I dated for approximately 6 months before having sex with him. Then my hubby & I went on 3 dates ( in about 2 weeks span) after meeting him in person. (We met online and talked for a month & a half before meeting).
02/13/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
The guy I'm with now I talked to for a few weeks online before meeting. We had two dates, one right after the other and then we had sex. I actually stopped in the middle and said I'M NOT NORMALLY THIS EASY!! We just clicked super well.
02/13/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
It wasn't quite an hour, but only because we had to drive to a hotel.
02/14/2011
Contributor: KikiChrome KikiChrome
Gosh, I'm boring! It's always been at least a month for me. I'm very cagey at getting to know people.
02/14/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
if i want someone im just goin to go for it and not miss my chance
02/15/2011
Contributor: Sparfitt08 Sparfitt08
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
It was the first night, but alcohol did play a huge part in it, then again, we haven't been apart since and it was love at first sight!
02/15/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I had sex with my current boyfriend maybe 3 weeks after we first started dating. We did know each other for a few months before that, though.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
My current partner and I waited a little over a year and a half, and it was the first time for both of us. We knew each other for about a year before we started dating, as well.
02/15/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
All but one took about a month till we had sex including the wife. The one time was like two hours and we were getting sweaty. It just worked out that way.
02/22/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
Only one night stand Ive had and it took about 3 hours to make it back to his place
02/22/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
The first time was with the guy who eventually became my husband and it was about 5 months into the relationship before we did it
02/22/2011
Contributor: KennyMister KennyMister
Friends for a few months then sex after a month together.
03/18/2011
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
wk or more
08/13/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
Sometimes things just happen!
08/16/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by XxXxX
Sometimes things just happen!
Exactly!
08/16/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
It wasn't quite an hour, but only because we had to drive to a hotel.
08/16/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
We talked on the internet and the phone for about a month before we met. The night we finally met we had a few drinks and then went back to her house and had sex all night. That was 5 years ago now we are married and as happy as every.
08/16/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
About a month, I think, but we were on our first date.
09/01/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
Yahoo hook up. Motel room, started at it right when she came through the door.
09/25/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Solar Ray
Just curious what's the soonest you've ever had sex with someone after meeting them for the first time.
2nd date and I really wonder why looking back.
09/25/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
three months.
09/25/2012
Contributor: butts butts
My partner and I knew each other online for several months, we were best friends and knew we were going to become partners. The first day we met we had sex, and that was my virginity We're still together, years later!
09/26/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I think the shortest was about three weeks. Unless you count the guy I chatted with online for a few years, met casually once, then when he came into town for the sole purpose of seeing me I think it took maybe three hours or so for us to have sex.
09/26/2012