This is really hard. I think the worst thing to discover is that they are previously the opposite sex, then the second one would be they are a psycohobath,dont bath regulary, that they are related to me, then criminal record...I dont really care about a criminal record who doesnt have one now days?

ditto with the psycho being close behind.

OMG!

Do you mean, for example, a Tea Party candidate, who is in the KKK?

A friend once introduced me to a nice woman, but that was as far as it went, once she told me she was an investment banker.

Good enough reason to end it right there, Riccio. You've got taste.

Most people where I live at have a criminal record, lol..

Yeah way to go dad! Glad you googlged him or you may have never found out!

Thanks, Chilipepper. I really believe that money isn't everything, and when she began talking about money, to find out how much I had - how much I did not have would be more accurate - I knew that it was hopeless.

"[H]e sees in them not human beings, but hands, as he constantly calls them to their faces; he insists, as Carlyle says, that”Cash Payment is the only nexus between man and man." Even the relation between himself and his wife is, in ninety-nine cases out of a hundred, mere”Cash Payment". Money determines the worth of the man; he is”worth ten thousand pounds". He who has money is of”the better sort of people", is”influential",and what he does counts for something in his social circle. The huckstering spirit penetrates the whole language, all relations are expressed in business terms, in economic categories."F. Engels _The Condition of the Working-class in England_.

I was 19, and my mom screamed on the phone when she found out.
My dad spazzzzzed. I was in serious trouble, lol.

Let's see, the blood relative thing is creepiest, but the psychopath thing is damn scary and more likely to cause actual trouble, since I'd assume the distant cousin would at least end in mutual dumping, while the psychopath may turn stalker.

Criminal record? Meh, that could mean anything, so I'd need to know more. An ex-con who is not a psychopath is quite possibly still dateable, depending on the circumstances. Some people have records for really stupid reasons, and others can genuinely change.

The bathing thing? Yuck, but is it a longstanding habit or are there circumstances -- I wouldn't dump someone on suspicion of not bathing, necessarily, but sex would be out in the meantime.

Previously the opposite sex? Shocking, maybe, but not a panic-button type revelation. If I was already attracted enough to this person to be dating them, I don't think that fact would change my mind.