Do you use toys more than you have sex?

Contributor: Nashville Nashville
My question is just that. There are weeks where I use my toys every day but only have sex like once that week. Does your toy use/intercourse even out?
11/18/2008
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Contributor: Beautiful Dreamer Beautiful Dreamer
Quote:
Originally posted by Nashville
My question is just that. There are weeks where I use my toys every day but only have sex like once that week. Does your toy use/intercourse even out?
For the most part. I (surprisingly) rarely use toys for my solo play. My hands have always worked best.
I enjoy using toys with my partner, even if it's just mutual masturbation (which I find VERY hot).
So to answer, I primarily use toys during sex.
11/18/2008
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
Definitely use toys WAY more. I like to masturbate. A lot.
11/19/2008
Contributor: Airlia Airlia
Hmmm especially since I started reviewing like crazy my toy use has increased. I LOVE sex but toys - well there are so many different sensations. We do tend to use them together so I suppose it's mutual masturbation sessions?
11/19/2008
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I too use toys way more then I have sex with a partner but toys also are almost always part of partner sex for me. If my partner isn't available what's a girl going to do?
11/19/2008
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
My partner & I have sex a lot, and usually work toys in during the sex, so my answer would be that we probably have sex a bit more than use toys.
01/23/2009
Contributor: Irisheyez Irisheyez
yes because in long distance relationship.
01/23/2009
Contributor: goodvibrations goodvibrations
It varies with my husband and I sometime we use toys a lot and others we don't seem to use them as much. I would have to say it is 50-50 for us.
01/23/2009
Contributor: Snappy Snappy
Yes.
01/23/2009
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Toys win out for me.
01/23/2009
Contributor: Oggins Oggins
Hmm, I would have to say that it's pretty much 50/50 for us too.
01/24/2009
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
We definitely have sex more than we use toys.

Unless you include lube as a toy. Hehe.
01/24/2009
Contributor: Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
For me it depends on what is going on. If he is home, toys are used as a part of sex usually unless I get really turned on or get new toys in the mail when he is at work. Getting a new box from here just turns me on like crazy. If he is gone all I get is toys...and for some reason I could play with my toys all day some days when he is gone. Maybe it because sex and human touch satisfies me more than the orgasm. I'm still trying to figure this one out.
01/24/2009
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
It used to be about equal, but ever since I've started taking BC, my DOC (daily orgasm count) has dropped from 3-4 p/day to about 1-2/p-day. And I made the genius mistake of breaking up with all of my FWB before finding a long-term partner, so right now, I DEFINITELY use toys more than I have sex! XD
01/26/2009
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have a very varied libido.
Usually when my libido has a major spike I have sex more than I use sex toys. I don't masturbate often but when I do I will usually use as many toys as I believe seems fit.
I too will judge my use as 50/50.
01/31/2009
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Definitely use toys more, too.
02/01/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
It's by far the opposite. We have sex far far more often than we use toys. Either by myself or with my husband. I do keep a number of toys in my computer bag though. If I'm lucky, I play with them alone in the car!
02/01/2009
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
We definitely have sex more than use toys. However, we usually (I'd say about 65% of the time) in-cooperate toys in our sex. When hubby is gone out of town (which happens a couple of times a year for a week at a time) I use the toys way more. Sometimes if the hormones get to raging and he's at work, out come the toys!
02/25/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Sex trumps toys, but the two aren't mutually exclusive. Whenever I'm alone (read: can't get to boyfriend unless I hitchhike two hours north) and I need a little help getting off fast and hard, I pull out a toy. If I'm spending time with my special guy, then it's just us and nothing but skin unless we have a lot of extra playtime and we're in a playful mood. Most of the time, if I get a new toy, I'll bring it over to show him and let him decide if he wants to try it on me.
02/25/2009
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
Sex trumps toys, but the two aren't mutually exclusive. Whenever I'm alone (read: can't get to boyfriend unless I hitchhike two hours north) and I need a little help getting off fast and hard, I pull out a toy. If I'm spending time ... more
Miss Cinnamon, I'm in the same boat as you. Long distance relationship. More toys than sex. Sex is still better.
02/25/2009
Contributor: Swallows Swallows
We used to not use toys that often, but I had to take meds that may decrease the effectiveness of birth control, so until I have been off those meds and on bc for a while, we have been only using toys. Condoms are good, but I am super safe, and like to use them as well as the pill. Although he doesn't like any type of toys personally, he loves to use them on me. I make sure he is good and satisfied, though!
03/13/2009
Contributor: VampKitty VampKitty
Toys more. I'm a full time college student. My boyfriend is currently trying to move to that state my school is in. So toys.
08/25/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Toys more. I think that I'd use them more, even if my partner did live in the neighborhood because I enjoy masturbation so much. Beyond that, our toys come into our sex 80% of the time, anyway, so toys are a staple of our sex life, apart or together.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We use toys in about 90% of our encounters - other than that they stay in the drawer.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
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Originally posted by Nashville
My question is just that. There are weeks where I use my toys every day but only have sex like once that week. Does your toy use/intercourse even out?
I use my toys way more than I have sex. I'm kinda like a bonobo monkey, I think I could have sex all day. I've never met a man that could keep up with my sexual appetites, so I'm nearly perpetually stuck with the brain fever called lust. If it weren't for the toys, I'd be a lust-zombie.
08/25/2010