i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
is it worth it?
09/10/2010
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This has happened to me before. I was way too relaxed.
09/11/2010
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There is a different technique for erotic massage than for a relaxing massage! Might be worth it for you and your partner to check out some of the books and videos about erotic massage for lovers. That should help with the fatigue after a massage.
Originally posted by
paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
09/11/2010
We have a massage routine that gets very intimate - by the time I'm done with my massage she's begging for me to penetrate her. She loves it when I massage her 'pressure points'. Not sure if there is such a thing - but essentially it involves a fairly deep massage to the area where her legs and torso meet - inevitably the next step is a vulval massage then......
09/11/2010
It really depends on the type of massage. There are certain techniques that are supposed to be relaxing and others that are meant to be erotic!
11/05/2010
I find massages too relaxing but then I haven't had an erotic massage.
11/06/2010
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Its normal to get tired. maybe sex first then massage?!
Originally posted by
paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
12/09/2010
Been there. I agree that it depends on the type of massage.
12/10/2010
Different massage techniques release different chemicals. You need to know where to massage and how to do it to get the desired outcome.
12/10/2010
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I also fall asleep during massages!
Originally posted by
paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
12/20/2010
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My husband insists on this! He knows if he gives me a massage first that I'm apt to fall asleep and be done for the night.
Originally posted by
darkkitty
Its normal to get tired. maybe sex first then massage?!
12/21/2010
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Great answer airen
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
There is a different technique for erotic massage than for a relaxing massage! Might be worth it for you and your partner to check out some of the books and videos about erotic massage for lovers. That should help with the fatigue after a massage.
12/29/2010
Massages tickle to much for me to fall asleep! Besides me and my SO always do them naked and it's hard to fall asleep with his dick poking me in the bum. lol
12/29/2010
Sometimes it relaxes me, sometimes it turns me on... sometimes both! It just depends on how I'm feeling and what he's doing. Either way, we both get some enjoyment out of them and that's all that's important.
01/06/2011
Depends on the massage. Try mixing the type of massage that relaxes you enough to fall asleep with other, erotic, massage that focuses on your erogenic zones.
01/06/2011
I guess it depends on the intent....are you using massage as foreplay? There is nothing wrong with being so relaxed that you fall asleep if you are just being intimate with your partner. If you are using massage as foreplay, I would concentrate more on errogenous zones with firmer touch rather than a full body uber-relaxing massage. Have fun!
01/06/2011
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I often ask my husband for a massage, even before sex. In order to keep me from falling asleep, he will massage my ass, and my inner and outer thighs, and it just turns me on LOL So then I gotta! LOL
Originally posted by
paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
02/20/2011
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Totally worth it. I love massages. Honestly, I prefer them to most sex.
Originally posted by
paralax
i seem to get tired after a massage. i end up not wanting to have sex just fall asleep? so is it worth it? is it just me? am i weird or something? does anyone else get tired after?
02/23/2011
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