Dirty Talk - Great Addition or Too Far?

Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I've heard mixed reactions on speaking and hearing dirty talk while fooling around. Some find it uncomfortable if its too aggressive and some can't get enough. What are your thoughts!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I need to shower afterward I like talk that dirty
48  (29%)
It's a great addition as long as it is within reason
73  (44%)
From time-to-time it's fun
30  (18%)
Let's keep the language PG-13
3  (2%)
No talking, its buisness time
11  (7%)
Other
1  (1%)
Total votes: 166
Poll is closed
12/22/2010
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Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Babbling idiot mean anything to you? We talk more when we're having sex than when we aren't. I kid, it's about equal.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Love it.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I started falling asleep one time and babbled a ton. For some reason I metioned that Bella from Twilight was amazing and I wished that I could give one of her to everyone. I then started listing people I thought needed a Bella. Funny thing is, I don't like Twilight. I suppose this doesn't count as dirty talk. I like being talked dirty to, I just don't know how to reciprocate. I feel like an idiot when I try.
12/22/2010
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Dirty talk is a must for roleplay or D/S.
12/22/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
I've gotten used to it at my job. I feel awkward doing it in real life though. I enjoy it when I'm being spoken to if it's done tastefully. Sometimes it just seems so forced and it skeeves me out.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
some times it just sounds so fake and doesn't come out easily. I don't care for that.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Blakiepoo Blakiepoo
Seeing as I have no personal experience, I can only go by porn.

HELL YES it turns me on. Sometimes I get into a mood where I crave really awful, dark nasty things said to me. The worse, the more the need gets fulfilled. Other times some plain vanilla sex is what I want with regular "that mouth feels so good" stuff.

But I do agree that when it's done badly or if the talker is trying too hard, it's a turn off. Sometimes in gay porn, it's an endless and even humourous series of "Yeah?" "yeah." "yeah?" "yeah fuck" "fuck yeah? yeah". or saying "you like that?" over and over again. Just stop.
12/22/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
I usually feel like I'm trying to hard and it is extremely awkward, but I usually get points for trying.
12/23/2010
Contributor: RubenesqueAna RubenesqueAna
Quote:
Originally posted by Blakiepoo
Seeing as I have no personal experience, I can only go by porn.

HELL YES it turns me on. Sometimes I get into a mood where I crave really awful, dark nasty things said to me. The worse, the more the need gets fulfilled. Other times some ... more
Oh my lord. I had a partner that used to say "You like that?" or "I know you like that, baby" all the time. Such a mood killer. Yeah, talk like that should definitely be abolished.
12/23/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Yeah, we're pretty filthy. I like to be called a dirty whore and a cock-sucking slut. And me saying things like "Lick my cunt" and "Yeah, baby, fuck my ass" are always crowd pleasers.
12/23/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think it's fine in moderation.
12/25/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I like it when he's domming me, but I just can't do it. I'm too shy. D:
Also, it bothers me when sometimes he doesn't stop talking... he'll just stop doing whatever he's doing and ask, "what can I do better" or something like that and it really frustrates me because usually he's doing really well.
12/26/2010
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I love dirty talk it gets me more aroused and it is nice to say something instead of just grunting and moaning for the whole time.
12/26/2010
Contributor: misslady misslady
Sometimes I don't want to talk and that's fine. Generally if I do engage in dirty talk, it's just simple stuff like "I like it when you...", "I'm coming" or "This feels so amazing." Anything else feels a little too contrived, unless I'm describing a fantasy or giving directions
12/26/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I enjoy it, so long as it isn't degrading (and that has to be consensual). I have limits as far as what I do/don't mind being called.
12/26/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Quote:
Originally posted by Blakiepoo
Seeing as I have no personal experience, I can only go by porn.

HELL YES it turns me on. Sometimes I get into a mood where I crave really awful, dark nasty things said to me. The worse, the more the need gets fulfilled. Other times some ... more
Oh dear, I so know what you mean. I have one gay porn and the opening scene is on the floor of the shower and it's just oral but the guy getting the oral just keeps saying "yeah suck my cock harder, you like that don't you" over and over and over and THIS IS WHY I WATCH PORN WITH THE SOUND ON MUTE.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I love talking dirty during sex. It's part of the fun for myself as it seems to highten my experience with it.
Of course, I am a sub so, I need direction. lol
12/28/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
If we are in a rough mood, then it is a must for me. I love it when he calls me his little fuck whore and dirty little slut. It is like whispering sweet nothings in my ear!
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kiwi Kiwi
It has been generally acknowledged that I'm not much good at it, but it can be fun with my limited expertise.
01/05/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
I like it in the right situations. I prefer hearing it rather than doing it, simply because I feel more awkward when it's me.
01/15/2011
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Love it!
01/17/2011
Contributor: MaryA MaryA
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
If we are in a rough mood, then it is a must for me. I love it when he calls me his little fuck whore and dirty little slut. It is like whispering sweet nothings in my ear!
Ohhh, same for me. It's practically a requirement for me when we're going rough.
01/25/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Mild only for me, I'm not all that good at it and I'd be uncomfortable with anything too harsh.
01/26/2011
Contributor: tits only tits only
I am not a talker but my bf is sometimes it makes me not want sex cause he can talk to much.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
Quote:
Originally posted by The Awesome Penguin
I've heard mixed reactions on speaking and hearing dirty talk while fooling around. Some find it uncomfortable if its too aggressive and some can't get enough. What are your thoughts!
It is a love time,
It is a love making,
It is a neares space between us,
How we could like to talk in such way!!!
01/27/2011
Contributor: GoodMorningSunshine GoodMorningSunshine
I think some dirty talk kind of completes the experience, but there are some things that can be said that would make me a little uncomfortable, I'm sure. But on the other hand, I've been with guys who didn't talk dirty at all and there was just something missing from the sex, so for me it's a definite staple.
02/03/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
I love dirty talk
02/03/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
It can seem kind of cheesy sometimes
02/04/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by The Awesome Penguin
I've heard mixed reactions on speaking and hearing dirty talk while fooling around. Some find it uncomfortable if its too aggressive and some can't get enough. What are your thoughts!
Haha. "Lets keep the language PG-13, people."
02/04/2011