Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
How do you communicate?
02/07/2013
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A little bit of everything
02/07/2013
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a little bit of everything
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
02/07/2013
My partner and i always discuss before or during what we woud like/do not like and are very direct with one an other about our sexual fantasies or what makes us uncomfortable. However sometimes if we're too heated and in the moment to actually discuss what we want/dont want we will move one an others hands. Body language is also important and there are certain cues to look for, but like moaning, it's not the best indicator of consent. Safe words are also very important too, specially for those into heavy bdsm or who role play (such as rape fantasies) because you need to know when you're partner has had enough and you've possibly crossed the line, regardless on how well you may know one an other. I didn't choose that as an option for myself as my partner and i only practice very lite bsdm and have previously discussed what is and isn't okay to do.
02/07/2013
It depends...a little bit of everything other than safe words. We're never in situations where those are necessary.
02/07/2013
We do all of the above.
02/07/2013
Same here, pretty much all of the above.
02/07/2013
I use a little of all of the above
02/07/2013
all of that pretty much
02/07/2013
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I do just about all of those.
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
02/07/2013
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That's awesome. Thanks for sharing.
Originally posted by
bratcat
My partner and i always discuss before or during what we woud like/do not like and are very direct with one an other about our sexual fantasies or what makes us uncomfortable. However sometimes if we're too heated and in the moment to actually
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My partner and i always discuss before or during what we woud like/do not like and are very direct with one an other about our sexual fantasies or what makes us uncomfortable. However sometimes if we're too heated and in the moment to actually discuss what we want/dont want we will move one an others hands. Body language is also important and there are certain cues to look for, but like moaning, it's not the best indicator of consent. Safe words are also very important too, specially for those into heavy bdsm or who role play (such as rape fantasies) because you need to know when you're partner has had enough and you've possibly crossed the line, regardless on how well you may know one an other. I didn't choose that as an option for myself as my partner and i only practice very lite bsdm and have previously discussed what is and isn't okay to do.
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02/07/2013
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we are very verbal about it all
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
02/07/2013
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All of the above!
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
02/08/2013
We do a lot of non-verbal things - but are getting better at talking about stuff. Often after something new to see if she liked it - and how to do it better.
02/08/2013
We like to communicate verbally.
02/08/2013
A bit of everything, except the "moving their hand" one, that actually annoys me.
02/08/2013
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I said other because I do all of these!
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
02/08/2013
all
02/09/2013
show and tell
05/10/2013
All of those.
05/10/2013
I try to do all of them, but non-vebally is always easiest for me.
05/13/2013
All of the above, as well as some "de-briefing" afterwards, especially if we've tried something new.
05/13/2013
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We use several of these things, and in combination with each other.
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
05/16/2013
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little bit of everything, as well!
Originally posted by
Genderfree
Consent is really important thing, and I know it's different for everyone. So I was curious: how far does communication go with your partner as far as what you want and how you want it?
05/16/2013
He can tell when he hits the spot!
05/16/2013
Talking, its always planning it seems now a days.
05/23/2013
I little bit of everything. Although my husband knows exactly what I love.
05/23/2013
Almost all of those.. most of the time I tell them what I want.
05/30/2013
talking beforehand is always fun foreplay during: telling them, moving them, moaning, etc.
05/30/2013
talking!
07/11/2013
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