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How much foreplay do you want or need?

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Contributor: eri86 eri86
For you personally, what is the perfect amount of foreplay? And in this case, foreplay is whatever you consider to be foreplay. I'm just curious about the time.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
0 - 5 min (Let's just do it already!)
5 - 10 min
SecretKinksters , Bignuf , kozykitten65 , CutiePatootie
4
10 - 15 min
Kdlips
1
15 - 20 min
Rossie , Thong man , konicaguy , friendswithfangs
4
20 - 25 min
OH&W, Lovebears
1
25 - 30 min
30 to 60 min
CinnamonNights , Bubba29
2
1 hour +
edeneve
1
Total votes: 13 (13 voters)
Poll is closed
08/25/2013
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Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
0 - 10 min. I don't need much foreplay, I want the main event
08/25/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I didn't check the duration -- probably around 20 minutes or so, involving BJ and cunnilingus.
08/25/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
The wife :up to an hour depending on her mood. For him I can get him up within minutes.
08/25/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
There is no set time. - C&K
08/25/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
I tend to want to continue foreplay longer than my wife
08/29/2013
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by Thong man
I tend to want to continue foreplay longer than my wife
The common idea is that men do not require a lot of foreplay, once they are erect just go for it, does not hold true for me. I tend to prefer lots of caressing and snuggling followed by some oral play to get me revved up. Even a break, say to get a bite to eat or drink that prolongs the event can be good as long as I do not get the feeling that we might not get right back to the lovemaking soon.
Slow-cooking works best for me, if I can have time to think about things and fantasize about how are going to carry on it fuels my fire and makes me more likely to get off. There have been times when my wife purposely teases me and then just walks away, with a promise of play later...that makes me crazy.....delayed satisfaction can be a powerful tool for getting the other tool working.
08/31/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
For you personally, what is the perfect amount of foreplay? And in this case, foreplay is whatever you consider to be foreplay. I'm just curious about the time.
The older I've gotten, the more foreplay I want/need.
09/18/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I love it stretched out as long as possible. not only is it delicious in & of itself, it builds such incredible anticipation.
09/28/2013
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
love it long as i can get it
09/30/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I don't really care too much for the main event, and for me to care I need lots of foreplay. I need to get about half and hour to an hour before I can really get into it. Without enough foreplay, sex is just boring and overly long.
10/23/2013
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I miss foreplay
10/23/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
foreplay is my favorite part. intercourse symbolizes the beginning of the end of our play time.
10/23/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
My favorite is when its an all day kinda thing, a little here and there to tease throughout the day! But if i cant i like as much as i can get. i love going back and fourth kissing and caressing and revving each other up as long as we can handle. i love to have to beg him to fuck me cause i cant wait any longer
11/16/2013