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Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Sometimes I find I prefer everything that's involved in foreplay far more than I do the actual sex itself, and that I could almost forgo the latter.

So which does everyone else prefer, the sex or the foreplay? And I'm purposely making the options narrow, so feel free to elaborate on your choice in your reply.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I prefer sex.
15  (30%)
I prefer foreplay.
35  (70%)
Total votes: 50
Poll is closed
02/22/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Other - like you I adore a good long foreplay session - but I cannot forgo the final climax.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
'Other' for me also. I totally agree with Gunsmoke, foreplay is important but it won't be complete, unless we reach the peak moment of sensuality while our bodies are jointed together.
02/22/2012
Contributor: nakedbear nakedbear
Both...?
02/23/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
If I *had* to choose...sex.
02/23/2012
Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
Most of the time, foreplay. But once in awhile the sex is too good to pass up!
02/23/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Can I say that none is that good without the other and would never miss out on any of them?
02/23/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I like the build up of foreplay, the anticipation and the time and thought that goes into really turning the other person on. About half the time we do have extended foreplay sessions that end with dual orgasms, we just incorporate that into the end of the foreplay. I mean, most of us do watch the moneyshot-lol!! It adds a bit of hot, naughty 'sex' to the session and is fun to follow through on.
02/23/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
I like foreplay a lot, sex is great but the foreplay is a great lead in.
02/23/2012
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
My boyfriend prefers foreplay
02/23/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
If I had to choose between the two I would take the sex, but sex doesn't mean as much without any foreplay at all.
02/25/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
I said sex because foreplay is a part of sex for me.
02/25/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Generally foreplay, but if done "right" the two should pretty much become indistinguishable from each other and merge into one mega fun-time. We'll try to go back and forth between the two, (especially during longer sessions) to give ourselves a "breather".
03/30/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I enjoy great sex AFTER some nice foreplay. I love the build up of foreplay.
04/01/2012
Contributor: Lari Lari
Both, although foreplay plays a huge part!
Hell, both are important...I thought I could choose, but can't.
04/01/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
foreplay and sex
06/27/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
foreplay
06/27/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Other - like you I adore a good long foreplay session - but I cannot forgo the final climax.
I agree.
06/27/2012
Contributor: justme23 justme23
foreplay
06/27/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
the line between sex and foreplay is blurred, but i do enjoy a long foreplay session and holding off on orgasm;D
06/28/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
depends on my mood
07/05/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
Sometimes I find I prefer everything that's involved in foreplay far more than I do the actual sex itself, and that I could almost forgo the latter.

So which does everyone else prefer, the sex or the foreplay? And I'm purposely making ... more
Sex!
07/13/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
Sometimes I find I prefer everything that's involved in foreplay far more than I do the actual sex itself, and that I could almost forgo the latter.

So which does everyone else prefer, the sex or the foreplay? And I'm purposely making ... more
I like to get sooooo excited that I can't take it anymore!!!
07/15/2012
Contributor: FunFantasys FunFantasys
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
Sometimes I find I prefer everything that's involved in foreplay far more than I do the actual sex itself, and that I could almost forgo the latter.

So which does everyone else prefer, the sex or the foreplay? And I'm purposely making ... more
I love the intenseness that comes with foreplay.
01/11/2013