Did you make love before or after getting married?
before or after marriage?
03/12/2011
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Ooohh, good question. I'm curious now!
03/12/2011
Oh, before. I'm not sure you'll get many, if any, "after" votes these days.
03/12/2011
My father always told me to test drive a car before you buy. I applied the same philosophy to my future husband!
03/12/2011
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before. We were together for 4 years before we got married, and lived together for 3.5 of those years. so yea, we slept together... a lot. and still do now that were married...
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
03/12/2011
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lol Try it before you buy it!
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
My father always told me to test drive a car before you buy. I applied the same philosophy to my future husband!
Totally agree. I mean, what happens if you don't find out until after you're married that you're not sexually compatible?
03/12/2011
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try before you buy lol I love that!! and agree with it.
Originally posted by
UnknownGirl
lol Try it before you buy it!
Totally agree. I mean, what happens if you don't find out until after you're married that you're not sexually compatible?
Totally agree. I mean, what happens if you don't find out until after you're married that you're not sexually compatible?
Sex is a large portion of our lives, as is love work and family. I wouldn't want to spend my life in a job that I didn't truly love so why risk spending your life with someone whom you aren't sexually or otherwise incompatible with
03/12/2011
Most definitely before. I'm not waiting!!!
03/12/2011
I was going to wait until after, but then I realized I didn't want to rush into marriage just to have sex.
03/12/2011
Before
I don't really like this idea of "test driving"... Sounds too offensive. And I don't believe in such incompatibility either. If relationship works in general, there are always lots of possibilities to harmonize your sex life. So it wasn't the reason for my choice at all. We are not yet financially ready to marry, while sex was just the logical continuation of our relationship.
I don't really like this idea of "test driving"... Sounds too offensive. And I don't believe in such incompatibility either. If relationship works in general, there are always lots of possibilities to harmonize your sex life. So it wasn't the reason for my choice at all. We are not yet financially ready to marry, while sex was just the logical continuation of our relationship.
03/12/2011
we just could not wait the joys of sex, marriage did make for better sex.
03/12/2011
Although I totally get the reasoning behind it, I worry that teens who decide to wait till after they are married sometimes just rush into marriage they might not be ready for, just to be able to have sex.
I agree with the idea of making sure you're compatible in that way first. Just another way of getting to know each other better.
I agree with the idea of making sure you're compatible in that way first. Just another way of getting to know each other better.
03/12/2011
I was engaged for 5 years and we bought our house together before we married so...yeah definitely before.
03/12/2011
I am not married, but I can't imagine that I will wait until marriage with any of my future partners
03/12/2011
before
03/12/2011
I don't think I could commit to someone for the rest of my life if I couldn't find out that we were/weren't compatible in such an important way.
03/12/2011
I would have waited.... but I didn't even come close to making it.
03/14/2011
Not married, but it won't happen regardless
03/14/2011
BelleIsabelle15
Only my mother thinks I was a virgin before marriage, god was she wrong.
03/14/2011
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I don't think any female in my family waited before marriage to have sex... I knew right off the bat that I wouldn't wait. I wanted to, but you guys know how that is. I didn't sleep around with a lot of people or anything though. I knew that I wanted to be with my hubby for a very long time, so we figured, why wait? Plus we had (have) tons of fun. ;D
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
03/14/2011
I don't think you're likely to find many people who wait on this site.
03/14/2011
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Definitely before
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
03/14/2011
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this is 2011 people lol
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
03/14/2011
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before after durring all of the above
Originally posted by
BunnyBoy
Did you make love before or after getting married?
03/15/2011
Wow. I'm actually shocked there's no one who voted "after" yet. Even at Eden, I wouldn't be surprised to find a few married religious couples who waited for marriage.
03/21/2011
never been married, and before. although I wouldn't have minded waiting.
03/22/2011
Test drive the car
03/22/2011
We tried so SO hard to wait until after we were married. We at least made it to being engaged and it was only a few months before the wedding.
03/22/2011
Why do people try to wait? Most seem to thing sex will actually be better if they wait, that is a bold faced lie!
03/24/2011
You have to test drive before you buy the car.
04/01/2011