How do you check-in on your relationship? Do you and your partner discuss the status and success of your relationship on a regular basis? Or do you wait for problems to arise and deal with them?
If you have a system or method of checking in, what is it, how does it work for you, does it seem to alleviate or prevent big fights and problems and how did you come up with your system?
If you don't have a check-in system or method, what do you do instead? Could you see the merit in such a system?
my Mistress and i have at least two discussions a month to check in on how Wwe both feel about things, anything that might not be working, if anything needs to change, if there are any problems or concerns or anything bothering either of Uus, as well as what Wwe're happy or pleased with and what is working well. It's a time when both of Uus can speak totally freely and expect the understanding and undivided attention of the other.
Wwe do this as part of our D/s relationship but i've become pretty convinced that it makes sense no matter what your relationship dynamic is. Thoughts?