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Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
Do you and your partner have the same first languages? What language do you speak to each other?

I speak English as a first language, and my girlfriend is a native Mandarin speaker.
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Yes, we both speak the same language natively.
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No, we do not speak the same language natively.
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Total votes: 152
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Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
We are pretty ordinary... both only speak English.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Master and I both speak english first but he speaks another language fluently too. Yummmmy
03/03/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I speak plain English and he speaks "Guy Talk" which is a series of grunts, moans and farts. He says "I have no idea what you are talking about most of the time." I feel the same. When he talks about work (He's an engineer.....and I'm not.) I am so bored and lost, I just don't understand. But, that doesn't stop him from telling me stuff.

03/03/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Her first language is Cantonese. For some reason, she really doesn't speak it much around me, even though I've asked her to teach me some.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
We're both boring and speak only English. I speak a little bit of Spanish, but not much. He's taking classes to learn more Spanish.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
Do you and your partner have the same first languages? What language do you speak to each other?

I speak English as a first language, and my girlfriend is a native Mandarin speaker.
We both speak English. We do have our own little sweet voice cutsey talk and silly words we made up though
03/03/2011
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
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Originally posted by Blooddragon
We both speak English. We do have our own little sweet voice cutsey talk and silly words we made up though
My wife speaks french very well though although English is her first language.
03/03/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
We both speak English, and we both took French back in high school.
03/03/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
We both speak English but he's teaching me Italian and French and We both know a little Spanish.
03/03/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Yes, English, but we'd both like to learn another language. Him Spanish, me Italian.
03/03/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
We both speak english natively, but we both know other languages fluently.
03/03/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
We're both native English speakers, although I'd love to learn another language.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
We both speak english, however, I am english/french bilingual.
03/03/2011
Contributor: KaraSutra KaraSutra
We speak the same language (English), but we've managed to make up our own language that only each of us understands. It's rather fun when we're in public or with friends.
03/03/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I speak plain English and he speaks "Guy Talk" which is a series of grunts, moans and farts. He says "I have no idea what you are talking about most of the time." I feel the same. When he talks about work (He's an ... more
OMG, this made me laugh so hard! lol
03/03/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I speak plain English and he speaks "Guy Talk" which is a series of grunts, moans and farts. He says "I have no idea what you are talking about most of the time." I feel the same. When he talks about work (He's an ... more
I'm an engineer as well - my wife wonders why I don't talk a lot - you nailed it.

Sweetie your not going to understand anyway - so why waste my breath and your time! Why don't you just tell me about your room full of 8-year olds (3rd grade teacher), they're more interesting and we'll both understand the conversation.
03/03/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
I speak English, he speaks poor English, but it's still his native tongue, lol. jk;-)
03/03/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
We both speak English natively
03/03/2011
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
My girlfriend is bilingual, French/English. Her first language was French, although she grew up in Chicago. (She learned English when she went to Kindergarten.)
03/03/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm an engineer as well - my wife wonders why I don't talk a lot - you nailed it.

Sweetie your not going to understand anyway - so why waste my breath and your time! Why don't you just tell me about your room full of 8-year olds ... more
LOL! I can see My Man's eyes glazing over when I tell him about the baby I taught to breastfeed, or the toddler I babysat last week. He may smile absently and say, "Yeah, cute." But, he says I have a tendency to start talking in the middle of a thought. He does, too!

Last night, we were lying in bed, I had on one of my "Fuck Me" nighties, I was all over him, and he was going on about some project he was building....I was going, "Uh huh. I'm sure it'll be fine. OOOO, you smell good." He finally turned to me and said, "Do you need me to go down on you or something?" WOW, take a hint much? It ended up being a beautiful evening, and after we slept for the night and picked up where we left off this morning.

He is SO intense about his work, I try to be nice. Really.

But, when he's in a "mood" the Guy Talk. "Mmm, uh huh, grunt, er, I dunno. Hmm." *BLART* *sigh*
03/04/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
LOL! I can see My Man's eyes glazing over when I tell him about the baby I taught to breastfeed, or the toddler I babysat last week. He may smile absently and say, "Yeah, cute." But, he says I have a tendency to start talking in the ... more
Nice - thanks. My story isn't as fun. The 8 yr olds had her so worn out, she just rolled over leaving me - well - alone. Hopefully the weekend will be better.
03/04/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Nice - thanks. My story isn't as fun. The 8 yr olds had her so worn out, she just rolled over leaving me - well - alone. Hopefully the weekend will be better.
Horn Doggie blasts to you wife this weekend then.

Eight year olds. Oh, my. That sounds exhausting.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Horn Doggie blasts to you wife this weekend then.

Eight year olds. Oh, my. That sounds exhausting.
Thanks - keep sharing your stories - they're motivational! Have a great weekend!
03/04/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I speak plain English and he speaks "Guy Talk" which is a series of grunts, moans and farts. He says "I have no idea what you are talking about most of the time." I feel the same. When he talks about work (He's an ... more
Hahaha, my girlfriend is an engineer, and I think she speaks the same language as your man!
03/05/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Her first language is Cantonese. For some reason, she really doesn't speak it much around me, even though I've asked her to teach me some.
I heard from another couple that it doesn't work to have your lover teach you a language; it's best to learn it from a third party. I've only succeeded in learning words like 'boobs' and 'poop' in Mandarin from her.
03/05/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
We both speak English
03/05/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
Hahaha, my girlfriend is an engineer, and I think she speaks the same language as your man!
I had a whole page of Engineer jokes. They were funny and true! I'll see if I can find them.
03/07/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
We both speak English as well.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Rarity Rarity
My partner's first language is Dutch, and mine is (technically) Korean, but we both speak English quite fluently! The only difference is, I live in America so I suppose it comes most naturally to me.
03/18/2011