Do you worry your S/O might find out?

Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
Since my husband was my first everything(kiss, date, lover, etc) I'm not worried, he knows everything.
11/02/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Yeah I guess so
11/02/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
I don't really have anything that needs to be hidden
11/02/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
im currently single,so i will respond based on a past relationship. he knew my past because i am very open. but he did not deal well with it. so i did censor myself sometimes so as not to "aggravate" his issues with my past.

i did learn how important it is to me to not feel judged or censored by a partner.
11/03/2012
Contributor: The Majikat The Majikat
ive told them everything.
11/10/2012
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Aww, I'm sorry you're uncomfortable like this. My partner is aware of my (limited) past experiences, though I can understand the discomfort.
11/10/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
My S/O and I never divulge about each other's past sexual experiences. I usually refrain from adding my replies to votes/posts about past sexual experiences/relationsh ips in this forum, worried my S/O might unintentionally read it. Do you have ... more
I don't have a 'history' besides masturbation so I'm not worried.
11/22/2012
Contributor: Ivanna Ivanna
I dont worry about it. We dont know a lot about each others but I am not worried if he did know.
11/22/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I've told some details but intentionally left out others.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I'm not worried.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Charry Charry
I think it's important in a relationship to make sure there's nothing that still feels uncomfortable talking about.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Tristan's Everything Tristan's Everything
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
My S/O and I never divulge about each other's past sexual experiences. I usually refrain from adding my replies to votes/posts about past sexual experiences/relationsh ips in this forum, worried my S/O might unintentionally read it. Do you have ... more
im not worried or anything im very open
11/24/2012
Contributor: daniel420 daniel420
my partner know my history
12/01/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We both know each others past, we're very open with one another.
12/01/2012
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
I'm not too worried.
12/01/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
My S/O and I never divulge about each other's past sexual experiences. I usually refrain from adding my replies to votes/posts about past sexual experiences/relationsh ips in this forum, worried my S/O might unintentionally read it. Do you have ... more
Not worried because only been w/ my hubby n he w/ me
12/02/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I am not worried it is what it is
12/04/2012
Contributor: burtnuh burtnuh
Technically my partner is the only person I've slept with, but he knows what happened before. I know the number of people he's slept with but that's about it. We both tend to get jealous easily over that stuff so theres no reason for us to bring it up.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
My SO is my only partner and she knows this
12/18/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
My SO knows my past, I am not worried
12/18/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
My husband knows alot of sexual history so I don't worry, he's active on here too but there isn't anything I'd want to keep from him.
01/01/2013
Contributor: Checkmate Checkmate
Since she is all of my past sexual history, I don't worry one bit!
01/01/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
My S/O and I never divulge about each other's past sexual experiences. I usually refrain from adding my replies to votes/posts about past sexual experiences/relationsh ips in this forum, worried my S/O might unintentionally read it. Do you have ... more
he isnt on ef, so i dont need to worry about it. but i do refrain from divulging too much about my past. some things are better left unsaid, and they were done before i ever met him. its not as though im putting his life or anything like that at risk, but he is the jealous type.
01/01/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I never tell people numbers (once you get into the double digits it just seems creepy) but I will tell them that I have been with more than a few people. I also share an STD history and what I do and don't like to do, this makes having sex safe. I don't think it is any business of an SO to know everything. We are all individuals after all. I wouldn't want a super detailed history from someone I was sleeping with, I have better things to do (**Cough**...have sex) lol.
01/01/2013