My partner and I really want to do a threesome. He's straight, but I'm queer, and would really like to find another fluid queer woman to join us. The problem is, we're not sure how to find someone, or even how to ask. We've thought about all of our friends who are really sexually open and would not make things awkward, but none of them will work for various reasons.

Suggestions on how you have maneuvered this in the past? less